infj

How to correctly find your enneagram..... I separated this post into 3 sections -how to, and tips -my experience -question/ discussion Hello so I personally had extremely hard trouble finding my Enneagram type and wing I never felt connected and I didn’t know how to find my type. So here is...

Hello everyone sometime ago a guy told me these words “INFJ’s say they can never cheat and will never but in actuality they do cheat.” I was surprised hearing this because as a INFJ I would say I WOUND NEVER EVER CHEAT on someone but that means I play part of his words lmaoo. so I asked him why...

hi. I need someone to help me with this, I am slowly driving myself insane over what is probably nothing, but I need someone to explain this INFJ behaviour to me. I work at a coffee shop. In March a woman I had never seen before came in. I served her, it was a very brief interaction but I...

Hey there. First post of a confused INFP. I’m interested in a INFJ coworker. I know her since 8 month. To keep it short: We had lunch break together - then I invited her to hang out after work and been rejected, so I backed off. Few weeks later she initiated to hang out together, which failed...

We used to be so close, in fact i loved him (we are both dudes and he knows i am gay).. even though he couldn't reciprocate because he's in a relationship (with a girl), but he'd get really jealous and possessive (this doesn't happen with other friend of his) while i am with other friends, this...

SORRY FOR THE LONG TEXT, BUT I HAD TO GIVE YOU AS MANY DETAILS AS I COULD! Hello, it has been around 2 weeks since me (ENTJ 23M) and my ex (INFJ 19F) broke up. She was the one who decided breakup. Basically the reason was that we started to detach from each other. At the beginning of February...

Hi! I'm an INFJ and he's an INTJ. We've had such an insanely long history of liking each other (think 10 years), but due to circumstances, we never got a chance to be together. During this period of time, we'd reconnect then disconnect, reconnect and then disconnect... This goes on for about 10...

I read somewhere that INFJ tend to keep things to themselves and choose only selected few to come to their inner circle. As an INFJ myself, I can totally relate to this.. But I'm just wondering if it's the same with everyone else.. So, here's the questions: 1. What personality type that you...

So long story short. I live in Amsterdam. The guy lives in Spain(my home country) and I have a solid reason to believe he is an INFJ. We knew each other for years, we hang out couple of times and during that time we might have had a connection but I was oblivious to it as I was in a...

ENFP here. I met an INFJ 2 months ago (we work together). We got on like a house on fire from the second we met, we talk about everything - philosophy, psychology, history, music, travel, MBTI lol... We share the same crazy opinions and theories about the world and other people. Things that...

Something I've been thinking about recently. I welcome all opinions, not just that of INFJs. INFJs are to a degree emotional creatures. I'm not sure how far this extends with other INFJs but from what I've seen here and other's I've spoken with INFJs feel other people's pain and often find...

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So I'm definitely INFJ, Ni as my main, Fe as my aux, Ti as my tertiary, Se as my inner three year old. I have issues with loud and many noises and sensory hell if I stay in that environment too long because of that alone. However, I also very likely have Low Latent Inhibition (LLI) - it being...

I'm an INFJ, (24 years old, female) I studied social work and had several jobs for a short period but i'm still struggling to find what I want and can do. It's not easy in my country to find a job as a social worker so when I was searching for a job I first worked as a childcare worker, which...

Have you ever met your twin flame, encountered someone or stories of someone that had? I locked eyes with mine & am too comatose in thought to explain much. mid 30's lesbian INFJ here & mid 40's closeted, religious ENFP somewhere far away, yet near. When our eyes locked, our souls united...

(Sorry for my english) Hello! I am an INTP that has been dating an INFJ for 2 years. We had a very tough fight because I didn't want to join a Facebook group of toy collectors, That happened at the end of october. He told me just in the fight that he wanted me to have entered the group so that...

Hello. I would like to share my story with you all. Thanks if u will read it :) So I (23, INFJ) broke up with my bf (27,INFJ) yesterday (9.10). - more about that later We've been together for almost 3 years but i just couldnt do it anymore. I usually dont give up on people, i push them to be...

I don't really now why i'm starting this. I think I need to put down all of my thoughts about myself, about being an INFJ, about of how I see the world. In those 2 days I read so much things and my brain has accumulated so much information that I wouldn't know how to reorganize them, so, I just...

Does it ever happened to you that you are thinking or imagining about something with your eyes closed and you kind of fell asleep (not exactly asleep but you aren't aware of your surroundings and only thing you remember after waking or coming back to senses are the images streaming in your...

Last month I finally lost it! After a year of working around teens, enduring racist, sexist, commentary and dodging inappropriate elders I up and lost my temper! My Se inferior function stepped in and said That’s enough! It’s time to roar! And I found myself lashing out and making a huge scene...

I came here to learn more about myself and perhaps find more people like myself. Believe it or not, i'm mixture between the impossible, Psychopath and INFJ. Excellent reading skills, i notice most details, faces, hands, feet and gestures, i'm creative deep thinker with an inner voice full of...

The movements of people toward and away from each other The body of someone leaning away or towards someone The subtle glances of a wandering eye The fleeting changes in a smile The direction of the body, feet, and face revealing the heart The accidental stumble or tipping over of a glass The...

I love the What Are You Listening To Right Now thread, but in addition to listening to a lot of music, I watch a lot of YouTube videos. Through the suppression of original creators and backroom deals, the YouTube Trending tab has slowly become a corporate and mumble rap propaganda machine. This...

Hello, I'm an INFJ in college and I have been dating a wonderful ENFP for a little over a month now. Everything is going great, but one thing that bothers me is the fact that I can't seem to quiet my mind enough for me to just enjoy the physical parts of my relationship. I'm always thinking...

OK here we go. I’ve been trying to figure out myself for a very long time. MBTI helped a lot. Everything I could find written about how INTJs think, behave and view the world matched up well except for one area. In relationships, the written descriptions were off. Way off. The descriptions were...

Hi, I haven't posted before so sorry if this is the wrong spot. So I've known I was an INFJ for a long time, but I didn't know until recently that my "quirks" are literally just built into my personality (like inability to fake a smile, loving being around people some days then feeling desperate...

How do I stop feeling anxious in a relationship? I constantly feel on edge or worried. I don't want to burden my partner with my problems so I struggle with being open about my true thoughts and feelings (I always eventually do). Also, I worry too much about their feelings being genuine although...

Is it just me who thinks infj personality comes with many mental disorders and that's one of the reasons we are rare because maybe we're ideal humans but not practically perfect creation for survival.

It has been almost a year since I started living alone in my own apartment after having lived with my parents since I was born. I recently turned 22, working a full time job that I don’t like. The plan was to spend all of my free time working on my passion and eventually get a job in that field...

Hi, guys! First of all, sorry for my terrible english. Ok, let's go with the telenovela. I meet this INTP guy on a dating app. We live in different cities (not too far away) He and I started talking; he calls me on the phone almost every day, sometimes we talk only a few minutes, other...