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  1. Enso

    Miracle of Love

    Hi, I'm new here but just wanted to share an amazing book of quotes about a mystic known as Neem Karoli Baba. Many simply referred to him as "Maharajii" which I think is common term for holy man. I'll let the quotes explain themselves. Quotes from the book "Miracle of Love: Stories about Neem...
  2. E

    What is your Gender?

    Really, everyone doesn't actively think about this question. When asked this question most will think of their privates as they're ingrained into our identity. That is our sex. Our sex is our biological structure. Every human being alive started with a vagina. Then it became dependent on...
  3. plurjosh

    Evolving Into Multi-Dimensional Consciousness

    I invite those reading this or listening, to take a couple deep breathes into the center of your chest, visualize arriving at a temple, and even before removing your shoes, wrap up any judging, any agendas of what you may think this is, and any notions about what belief is and take that folded...
  4. Rycka

    [INFJ] To date or not to date?

    Hello guys! Background: I have a tricky situation on my side. When I was younger, I found a friend who I could consider to be a Playboy. He's an ENFP, I'm INFJ and from him I have learned how to talk and deal with women. I have had quite a few girls on my side, but never girls with whom I'd...
  5. CuriousB

    [INFJ] How to get others to understand infj complexities

    Hi fellow infjs I'm new here and I can't sleep and I have some qs lol As an infj (at least for me and from what I've read about the type) it seems many of us don't feel understood and the greatest thing to achieve in a romantic relationship (or even friends & family) is that understanding. For...
  6. S

    My Greatest Fear: Love

    Hello to all. tbh this is just going to be a bit of a vent: a thought dump if you will. Basically, the greatest fear that I have identified thus far is my fear of love. I am afraid of being in a romantic relationship more than probably anything. Being a bit of a psychology nerd I find this fact...
  7. btg3ar

    HELP! INFJ/ENFP lesbian twin flames

    Have you ever met your twin flame, encountered someone or stories of someone that had? I locked eyes with mine & am too comatose in thought to explain much. mid 30's lesbian INFJ here & mid 40's closeted, religious ENFP somewhere far away, yet near. When our eyes locked, our souls united...
  8. PeaceLover

    [INFJ] In INFJ's perspective- what are the most important things in a relationship?

    I know that every person has different opinions, different understandings of things... but I just want to know how similar does INFJ think about it. As for me, I just don't take love as the only thing important in a relationship but also Understanding, Commitment, being Responsible and Good...
  9. pememily

    [INFJ] Quieting Your Mind

    Hello, I'm an INFJ in college and I have been dating a wonderful ENFP for a little over a month now. Everything is going great, but one thing that bothers me is the fact that I can't seem to quiet my mind enough for me to just enjoy the physical parts of my relationship. I'm always thinking...
  10. Fallible

    I need help breaking down the wall surrounding my soul

    It has been almost a year since I started living alone in my own apartment after having lived with my parents since I was born. I recently turned 22, working a full time job that I don’t like. The plan was to spend all of my free time working on my passion and eventually get a job in that field...
  11. P

    In love with a INTP

    Hi, guys! First of all, sorry for my terrible english. Ok, let's go with the telenovela. I meet this INTP guy on a dating app. We live in different cities (not too far away) He and I started talking; he calls me on the phone almost every day, sometimes we talk only a few minutes, other...
  12. Gaze

    Evolution of feelings about love

    Over a period of time, we learn from different experiences how to love. It seems the way we learned to love early in our first love experiences changes overtime and our expectations change, and so we don't experience love in the same way as we once did when we were learning about something that...
  13. TheFool

    [INFJ] How to let go of someone?

    Hello fellow INFJs! I’m sure that most of the INFJs here have struggled or are struggling with their broken heart, just like myself. Since we all know how fucking debilitating a break-up can be for an INFJ and how precious the feeling is to finally be able to let go of our past lovers, I...
  14. K

    Partner Disconnect

    I’ve been in a relationship with an ENFP for most of 2018 and we recently started living together. Emotionally, physically, mentally and in every way we are a great compliment to one another. We share a lot of the same interests, hobbies and we are always reading each other’s minds. He is so in...
  15. Rycka

    Men: are women worth the effort?

    Recently I have been thinking that most women easily fall for Chad's, but when it comes to average or below looking men not only you have to get out of your way to create an attraction, but also spend quite a bit of time showing one's value. It seems to me that the effort to return ratio is low...
  16. Rycka

    Here's How Attraction Works

    I see so many forums and topics revoling around this thing and it's often hyped up, but isn't it rather simple? Looking from biological perspective, we as humans usually tend to be attracted to those that essentially are of higher value, whatever that subjectively means. But generally... If...
  17. Ginny

    Expressions of love

    I have been thinking about a lot of ways to start this thread. In a way, even the way I'm starting it right now was calculated, but it probably will change form as I go along, like it always does. What it would involve (and cost) I knew since I thought of the issue, and therefore considered to...
  18. Triedandtrue

    Losing the love of my life

    Hey guys I'm a 33 year old enfp male who was dating a infj who was the love of my life. I have been searching everywhere in order to find an answer to get her back So this is our story we met in California in the spring of 2014 and we hit it off immediately. She had never dated anyone before...
  19. W

    Struggling to be single

    First post, so don't really know how to structure it or whatever, but here we go. Ever since I had my first girlfriend I have not been single for more than like 3-4 months in a row at tops. I have thought about this a lot the last few weeks after me and my previous girlfriend broke up. She was...
  20. Gaze

    Lust vs. Love: What's the diff?

    Lust vs. Love: What's the diff? When did lust turn into love? How was it different? What it easy to figure out? SIGNS OF LUST You're totally focused on a person's looks and body. You're interested in having sex, but not in having conversations. You'd rather keep the relationship on a fantasy...
  21. OliOliOxenFree

    What struggles do you face when trying to get to know someone?

    Hey Guys! Was curious as to what kind of challenges you all go through in your struggle to find a relationship or even just friends? This can be anything small or big. For me, its the fact that I absolutely detest small talk and try to do my best to connect with an individual on a personal...
  22. Marusiab

    Any european male INFJ looking for his ENTP ? ^^ :)

    Hey, I noticed mbti is popular in States but hardly anyone in Europe knows about it. Im 35 and searching for my infj soulmate...
  23. hunnybee143

    A Better World?

    Here I've written and believed in for as long as I can remember: What if I told you that there is no God? But, what if I told you that there IS God. Not that there is A God, but that there IS God, in the form of an Adjective, rather than a Noun. What if I said that we are all each pieces of...
  24. hunnybee143

    Question for INTJs

    Let's say you've been in a relationship for a year at most with someone who you immediately fell in love with, things were amazing the first couple months and then you had some major ups and downs that separated you for a little while until you were able to come together and make things work...
  25. Love_Conquers_All

    Relationship vs Religion

    The religion of Christianity is sorcery at it's finest. This is self evidenced by the behavior of most Christians towards one another and sinners alike. There is no Love, only Hatred and Judgement stemming from fear of the unknown God. They claim to have a relationship with Christ. Yet if they...
  26. Stu

    [PAX] The Impeachment of Donald J. Trump

    Wanted to get this started, just in case...
  27. D

    INFJ friendship vs relationship

    Hey INFJs, I have an INFJ male friend and was wondering if there is any way to tell if he is interested in me romantically or not? Lately, he's been initiating the two of us hanging out, (for the past month or two its been once or twice a week typically, but he's not the kind of guy that has...
  28. Scientia

    The Love of Your Life?

    Have you met someone who fits this description? Where did you meet? How quickly did you recognize your match in this person? Are you still together or did you split up?
  29. S

    [INFJ] INFJs and Texting?

    Hello, friends. I'm very close friends with a guy who is an INFJ. We've been friends for a few years but I recently started to develop feelings for him. The trouble is, I can't figure out how he feels about me. I've thought about asking, but I don't want to make our friendship awkward. He acts...
  30. S

    INFJ & INFP, are they compatible?

    Do you think an INFJ & an INFP would make a good couple? Why or why not?