Hi, guys! First of all, sorry for my terrible english.
Ok, let's go with the telenovela.
I meet this INTP guy on a dating app.
We live in different cities (not too far away)
He and I started talking; he calls me on the phone almost every day, sometimes we talk only a few minutes, other times we talk more than 1 hour. This was our dynamic for the last two and a half months. Finally we met (on my city). It was spontaneous, cute and sweet. He hugged me a lot, we kissed and we make out. I was afraid that he would lose interest in me after that day but things got even better; he started calling me more and he told me about some of his insecurities that he had not told me before. Sometimes he talks about a future together, but IDK if he's just joking or not, things like.. "when we sleep together" or "I am going to take you that place". Last weekend (two weeks after the day we meet) I tried to see him again; I asked him out, he said yes. We only agreed on the day, I didn't tell him what the plan was.
I travel to his city, booked a room for two in a hotel, send him a text... then he apologized, said had a lot of work and wasn't going to be able to see me (I mean, not even an hour). I stay calm (tell him: It's okay, don't worry.. don't feel bad, I get it...), even though I feel terrible.
He lives with his ex. He didn't tell about this; I know (long time ago) because I should work on the FBI... okay I text with the ex from a instagram fake account I have.
I have many doubts and I don't know what to think. I feel anxious. I want to be his boyfriend so bad.
Ok, let's go with the telenovela.
I meet this INTP guy on a dating app.
We live in different cities (not too far away)
He and I started talking; he calls me on the phone almost every day, sometimes we talk only a few minutes, other times we talk more than 1 hour. This was our dynamic for the last two and a half months. Finally we met (on my city). It was spontaneous, cute and sweet. He hugged me a lot, we kissed and we make out. I was afraid that he would lose interest in me after that day but things got even better; he started calling me more and he told me about some of his insecurities that he had not told me before. Sometimes he talks about a future together, but IDK if he's just joking or not, things like.. "when we sleep together" or "I am going to take you that place". Last weekend (two weeks after the day we meet) I tried to see him again; I asked him out, he said yes. We only agreed on the day, I didn't tell him what the plan was.
I travel to his city, booked a room for two in a hotel, send him a text... then he apologized, said had a lot of work and wasn't going to be able to see me (I mean, not even an hour). I stay calm (tell him: It's okay, don't worry.. don't feel bad, I get it...), even though I feel terrible.
He lives with his ex. He didn't tell about this; I know (long time ago) because I should work on the FBI... okay I text with the ex from a instagram fake account I have.
I have many doubts and I don't know what to think. I feel anxious. I want to be his boyfriend so bad.