One thing that I've noticed is that there seems to be many who feel extremely drawn to others despite not knowing the other person that well. They confess to the other person, and hope that they like them back and then move forward into a relationship of getting to know each other better. Bottom line: They are already really into the other person.
Perhaps it's the J-talking, or maybe it's just specifically me, but I don't recall ever crushing/becoming infatuate easily. If I don't know someone on an emotional level, there's little chance of me falling head over heels for them. Curious and somewhat interested? Sure. Missing the person/Wishing they were there every moment? Not really...
I've always known that if I was in a relationship, it'd more likely be one formed from an established friendship. I get the feeling that there are fellow Js here that share the same sentiment of experiencing slow building love.
Do you ever find it a problem though?
How do you deal when someone confesses to you that they like you alot, but while you're interested, don't know them that well yet?
Perhaps it's the J-talking, or maybe it's just specifically me, but I don't recall ever crushing/becoming infatuate easily. If I don't know someone on an emotional level, there's little chance of me falling head over heels for them. Curious and somewhat interested? Sure. Missing the person/Wishing they were there every moment? Not really...
I've always known that if I was in a relationship, it'd more likely be one formed from an established friendship. I get the feeling that there are fellow Js here that share the same sentiment of experiencing slow building love.
Do you ever find it a problem though?
How do you deal when someone confesses to you that they like you alot, but while you're interested, don't know them that well yet?