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    1. Bird
      Hope you're well friend!
    2. Soulful
      Hey Keith, no prob. I was glad to hear you're hanging in there. Happy holidays. :)
    3. Gaze
      Good to see you around. Happy Holidays :)
    4. Morgain
      you are here again!!!!! yeah!
    5. Kgal
      Wish you were here more often to help shift the balance.
    6. Kgal
      Thank you for saying that QP. :)
    7. 894tt3h9
      It's hard for me to imagine actually being INTJ just because I know I have Fe. I think my emotions are just kind of screwed up. Who knows what's going on with me. I think I'll sort it all out in time. Hopefully, anyway!
    8. 894tt3h9
      When I was in therapy my therapist told me that I automatically skip empathy and move towards solutions. She said that I have my empathy turned way down and that I do not know how to identify emotions. I think that this plays a huge part in how I react to things. I have considered INTJ and ISTJ as alternative personality types but I'm not so sure. For now I've kind of settled on IXXJ. I know I don't fit the traditional INFJ mold and description. I chose it based on my most frequent test results though I have tested as INTJ often also.

      It has been suggested to me that since I am constantly "coping" with anxiety there is not much room left for anything else including my other feelings. I am trying to get better with it but it is a difficult process. I just can't connect.
    9. 894tt3h9
      Not an ounce of it. I am not sure why. I have wrote about this in other places on the forum. I cannot connect to other people's tragedies, especially when they are on a large scale. I've always been that way. It's not that I am callous and uncaring, it's just that I have absolutely zero emotional reaction to it.
    10. Entyqua
      Hey you around?
    11. Soulful
      I'm glad to know things have shaped up and taken a turn for the better for you!
      I MUST get to sleep... it's the middle of the night.. but I wanted to reply to this at least in part because I somehow missed the notification for this message and I want to make sure I do reply to it when I'm more awake. So if you don't hear from me next time you're on, feel free to give me a nudge. :)
    12. bamf
      Sorry I haven't responded to your PM yet. I will soon!
    13. bamf
      It's definitely been a crazy summer. Sorry about the folk fest. I got the text, but was at work meetings that entire weekend. I'm back to working midnights again. I hope you've been doing well, man!
    14. Soulful
      Indeed, it's relatively intact. You may have seen the mods vs. forum discussion going on right now... but otherwise, all seems to be fine and dandy.

      Welcome back!
      How have you been?
    15. This
      It's sali. Background is teal right now for ovarian cancer awareness month or I would have had a picture of myself as an avatar.
    16. This
      Thanks for the rep comment, I hope someday that this is a place you can be happy to return to, even if it's not that for you today.
    17. Majesty
      not really...

      Sensing has NOTHING to do with empathy. Ns put more value on the abstract, the possibilities and ideas when Ss put more value on the concrete, observations and what they can sense. Where do you see empathy in there?

      I did explain you before how they weren't related and not even trying to understand. It's not about opinions, it's about facts.

      About the war thing, what you said is pretty much the same as "I may clearly see how black people are not inferior to white people and how they have the same capacities, but I will keep thinking that white people are superior because this is my (irrational) opinion and I'm entitled to it".

      it doesnt have the same consequences, but its really the same thing.
    18. kucala
      That's what I figured. And fair enough - take care of yourself, and stay in touch though, 'eh?
    19. TigersGoRAWR
      hahaha, it's no problem at all (:
      you have a gift for writing ^^
    20. Trifoilum
      Aw thanks <3 Well to be honest, knowing is one thing, being able to apply that on the right way, right time, and the right moment is different thing altogether.

      Oh, and..I'm...well, not 23. Still 20 pretending to be wiser than I actually am *laughs*
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    To raise my children to be happy, well-adjusted, a
    In descending order, which 6 things could you never do without?:
    1--My kids
    Married with 5 children: Faith 18yrs, Chelsea 15 years, Connor 12 years, Brendan 5 years, and Carly almost 3. I am an INFJ according to the Briggs-Meyer Personality test: "Introverted/INtuative/Feeling/Judgement". If you want to know "me" better, Google this (if you are not familiar with it). It is me to a tee! I live in the Lansing/Grand Ledge area and work for General Motors Service Parts Operations. Part time poet and writer with a few modest things published. Working on bigger things in this venue. Some of my favorite Websites:

    Poetry, Music, Sports, Sci Fi, Astronomy Space, Celtic Culture, Gardening, Ancient history, Antiques and Collectables, Movies, Cooking, Guitar, And Any Activities My Kids Are Involved In I Try to Golf, I Love Camping, Talking and Spending Time With My Family and Friends, I Like to Read When I Find the Time Lotr, The Chronicles of Thomas Covenant, The Foundation Series, A Song of Ice and Fire, The Dark Tower Series, Enders Game, Tanith Lee, The Talisman, Green Lantern Forrest Gump, Amadeus, Blade Runner, Austin Powers: International Man of Mystery, Austin Powers 2, The Hustler, A Fistful of Dollars, Toy Story, Enter the Dragon, Dances with Wolves, Official Grease Movie, Gladiator, It's a Wonderful Life, The Last Samurai, The Notebook, Star Wars, National Lampoon's Animal House, The Lord of the Rings Trilogy (Official Page), The Shankshaw Redemption, Dumb and Dumber, Highlander:The Series, A River Runs Through It, Star Trek The Wrath of Khan, Groundhog Day, A Christmas Story The Beatles, Heart, Chris Daughtry, Michael Buble, Nickleback, Jewel, Linkin Park, Maroon 5, Def Leppard, Queen, Evanescence, Stevie Ray Vaughn, Joe Satriani, Mozart, Marvin Gaye, Shinedown, DNA, The Lights, Beethoven, Cathie Ryan, Van Halen, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Hootie & the Blowfish, Boston There are those who look at things the way they are, and ask why... I dream of things that never were, and ask why not? - Robert Kennedy There's only two things I hate: prejudice people....and the Dutch!- Nigel Powers Always be a first rate version of yourself, and not a second rate version of someone else. - Judy Garland There are three ways to get something done: do it yourself, hire someone, or forbid your kids to do it. — Monta Crane


    "Only in silence the word,
    Only in dark the light,
    Only in dying life:
    Bright the hawk's flight
    On the empty sky.

    ~Ursula K. Le Guin
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