Solar Empath

The state of Winding Tolls. Hey, at least distance travelling is nice..lol ... Ohio is close enough...

I was told you are a Michigander. I am really excited there are a few of us here, though I appear to be the only female thus far.

Voila! I love that word. You make it sound so easy. But of course that's what you do, so..

Anyway, what kind of restaurant do you have? It seems pretty interesting so if you ever feel like chatting and I'm around, say hi.

Well, I can kind of see what you mean. With most of my friends I feel the need to be protective and I am so in tune with everyone's emotions that I do my best to make everyone comfortable. When a lot of my friends and I are together in a group, I do my best to make everyone at ease. Usually this causes me to take charge.

However, when I am with my very best friend, Nikki, I don't really have that problem. She is amazing and always has good ideas of things to do. So with her, I can just let go. It's nice to have someone like that in life, you know. A lot of my friends play the whole, "Well, I don't know what do you want to do?" game, and then I feel forced to make a decision, all the while worried I made the wrong choice.....

Anyway, I see you manage a restaurant, and you enjoy cooking. I have occasionally fantasized about opening a restaurant... but well... I wouldn't even know where to start. Today, while making dinner, I tried to play the scenario out in my mind and I got stuck at creating a menu... LOL.

Thanks for the rep!

Thank you. I got my face painted when I went to a festival in Germany. It was my last festival there and I was feeling... festive I guess..

Are you often looked to to be "in charge" because you're capable of making decisions and sticking to them. It's funny because even though I'm usually the introvert of my groups, my friends still always put me in charge. It's rare I just get to sit back and enjoy the ride. Maybe that's another reason why I don't like driving. It gives me an excuse not to hold the reins..

Your avatar is nice as well. In fact I like all of the pics in your albums.

Lol. How do they feel about it? I'm sure they just feel like wingmen, right?

My friends are usually just happy I'm willing to go out, that they don't mind being my comfort blankets.

I really like your screen name by the way.

I like your cool blue web-page. It is very nice! Thanks for the rep!

I am sorry that you felt offended by my post. It was not my intention at all

I really like your viewpoints. Maybe we should start a thread where we can openly talk about these things sometime. I agree with a lot of your posts (I'm just afraid to derail the questioning belief thread)

Thank you! It is an honor to be your friend. When I see your posts I see someone whose judgement and opinion I 100 pecent respect. Thank you!

Otay. It just startled me, haha. I think my right-brained-ness associates all the members so strongly with their avatars, that any changes or any that sticks out is like *WHOA*.

Like when I scan avatars, I intuitively know when they aren't an infj. Or something like that.

why are you green now?!

Thank-you so much for the reputation point. That was very kind of you!

yeah right on!!! It is really funny! It is like people are so used to us being selfless and compliant that they don't allow is to stand up for ourselfs for ones in our lifes, or something like that

"I'm pretty much the same way. I still cringe about things I did when I was 5 years old!" YES me too! And other people still blame me for things I did 5 years ago. Last one of my friends revived something in a really accusatorial manner something 5 years ago. And actually, that was one of the few moments that I stould up for what I wanted for a change, grr!

I'm glad you understand and appreciate it!

hey thanks for the comment

I really enjoy reading your posts on the forum, thanks a lot :kiss: