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INFJ and number of sex partners.

INFJ and number of sex partners

  • 0

    Votes: 73 36.3%

  • 1

    Votes: 32 15.9%

  • 2-3

    Votes: 32 15.9%

  • 4-5

    Votes: 14 7.0%

  • 6-7

    Votes: 16 8.0%

  • 8-9

    Votes: 3 1.5%

  • 10-15

    Votes: 14 7.0%

  • 15-20

    Votes: 4 2.0%

  • 20+

    Votes: 13 6.5%
  • Total voters
    201
Mystic7 said:
Once I saw a show about a porn star in which the porn star said she had slept with 3200 people. And I am thinking... how can you not have a disease after sleeping with 3200 people. ????:m035:
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Excellent point. At that rate, even a condom's 99.9% effectiveness has undoubtedly failed at least a couple times.

ilovethewind said:
^ It's not good to lose your virginity untill you're married. A lot of couples have sexual problems, but if you're both virgins, then you can't compare one person's way of sex with another.
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Oh great, so then you can have terrible sex together for life? Why is that a good thing?


EDIT: I'm the 13th most laid person in this poll. Is that unlucky?
 
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Mystic7 said:
I don't get how come the vast majority are virgins. lol. unless a lot of people on this site are under 20.

I would say that probably, INFJs require more emotional intimacy than other types and are not as likely to totally whore themselves out like some of the "E" types we all know.

About the 20+.... I have heard of a lot of people who exceed 20. One who was at 100. But if it's at 1000, they are either a rock star who banged every groupie that came his way, a porn star, or some kind of thing like that, would be my opinion.

Once I saw a show about a porn star in which the porn star said she had slept with 3200 people. And I am thinking... how can you not have a disease after sleeping with 3200 people. ????:m035:
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There're people who're over 20 here and still virgins.
 
I guess I'm middle of the road. 2 for intercourse, 4 for oral.
 
I am almost 40 years old and have slept with 5 people. Until the age of 36 I'd had 2 partners in my life. One was a long term HS boyfriend and the other was my husband. I seperated from my husband when I was 33 and for the last year I've been dating a man that I'm pretty sure I'll one day marry.

To be honest, those two other people that I slept with in between when I was married and when I met the person I'm with right now have made me feel kind of guilty. I'm by no means promiscuous and aside from those two people everybody I've slept with has been somebody that I was pretty sure I'd spend a long time with.
 
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I'm hearing alot of different things on here! What's the consensus for the sex partner thing?
I don't know if it really has anything to do with being an INFJ or whatever. Or that there's anything wrong with having a little fun in your life. Sometimes sex is just sex.
I'm 20 and I've had 9 sex partners and am not looking for "the one" anytime soon. Its all a matter of self choice right?
 
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Silently Honest said:
Every Generation has a disease, not a physical ailment, but a disease none the less, if the disease of the Seventies was careless excess, the eighties was lack of real depth, and the nineties was apathy, then ours is the disease of fear, the fear to live.
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Yes, this is true . . . unfortunately.
 
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Silently Honest said:
Every Generation has a disease, not a physical ailment, but a disease none the less, if the disease of the Seventies was careless excess, the eighties was lack of real depth, and the nineties was apathy, then ours is the disease of fear, the fear to live.
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I sadly have to agree. I think it keeps us from enjoying our lives.

I think a lot of us would do good to get laid a little more often. :m059:
 
learning.godess said:
I'm hearing alot of different things on here! What's the consensus for the sex partner thing?
I don't know if it really has anything to do with being an INFJ or whatever. Or that there's anything wrong with having a little fun in your life. Sometimes sex is just sex.
I'm 20 and I've had 9 sex partners and am not looking for "the one" anytime soon. Its all a matter of self choice right?
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In short? It's different for different people. Even different for different INFJs. So...it's tough to give a definite answer. Even the poll results are all over the place.
 
Blind Bandit said:
I sadly have to agree. I think it keeps us from enjoying our lives.

I think a lot of us would do good to get laid a little more often. :m059:
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Wow. This is all really heavy. My husband is older and therefore much more ummm... well, he was a boomer. They were freeeeee. It is a reprieve from my contemporary X geners who are more cautious. I'm exceptionally picky, but have had a lot of options, so probably have had more than anyone here. So, there is my question answered, but I'm not easy, just experienced. I'll end it at that.
 
HolySmoke said:
Wow. This is all really heavy. My husband is older and therefore much more ummm... well, he was a boomer. They were freeeeee. It is a reprieve from my contemporary X geners who are more cautious. I'm exceptionally picky, but have had a lot of options, so probably have had more than anyone here. So, there is my question answered, but I'm not easy, just experienced. I'll end it at that.
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I know a lot of gen Y folks (myself included) aren't as sexual free from all the STD scares and all that.

I think I would be open sexually if I felt I was more appealing and charming. And I though I could get it more regularly.
 
3- 2 men and 2 woman.

So... 50 people on here have never had sex?
Seems like we need to start a dating service to help out our fellow INFJ.
 
Only 2-3 for me...

May sound kinda hoe-ish but i wish it was more :/:m025:
 
I've had 6 @ 20 years old. I'm surprised at how many have been with 0!
 
jdftx said:
I'm surprised at how many have been with 0!
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Excatly right?!?!?!

I was like...woa....

I mean i know alot of people are young on here but...39 percent of us have never had sex?????...

no...i kinda-sorta dont believe that.

Idk maybe im wrong tho.(shurg)
 
Whitefire89 said:
Excatly right?!?!?!

I was like...woa....

I mean i know alot of people are young on here but...39 percent of us have never had sex?????...

no...i kinda-sorta dont believe that.

Idk maybe im wrong tho.(shurg)
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I don't know about others but I'm sick of being in a dry spell.lol :m206:
 
Blind Bandit said:
I don't know about others but I'm sick of being in a dry spell.lol :m206:
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Well, with what do furries have sexual intercourse?
Do you want your partner to dress up like an animal? I'm not sure if many would do that.

Edit: Okay, just to be sure, this was a joke. I didn't mean to be offensive, but that avatar just gave me a furry-impression.
I do not really think you're a furry.
EDIT 2: not that being a furry is bad. I wouldn't mind if you were one.
Shit, stupid political correctness.
 
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The Jester said:
Well, with what do furries have sexual intercourse?
Do you want your partner to dress up like an animal? I'm not sure if many would do that.

Edit: Okay, just to be sure, this was a joke. I didn't mean to be offensive, but that avatar just gave me a furry-impression.
I do not really think you're a furry.
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ROFL Yes its furry /were art and yes I'm a furry.lol But I'm not a fur suiter thats never done anything for me.

Hell I would take plain old boring sex. It would have some connection though. Thats my problem. I did the one night stand thing once and I felt awful afterward...
 
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Blind Bandit said:
ROFL Yes its furry /were art and yes I'm a furry.lol But I'm not a fur suiter thats never done anything for m.e

Hell I would take plain old boring sex. It would have some connection though. Thats my problem. I did the one night stand thing once and I felt awful afterward...
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Okay, I was afraid I was starting a shitstorm here.
But if you could choose the way you'd have sex, as in you can suggest anything and your partner would be okay with it, would being a furry influence that?
 
The Jester said:
Okay, I was afraid I was starting a shitstorm here.
But if you could choose the way you'd have sex, as in you can suggest anything and your partner would be okay with it, would being a furry influence that?
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No worries we are cool. Or I could always kick your butt until I felt we we where cool.lol :m173:

I guess, I would say I more comfortable admitting kinks than I think I would have been otherwise. But for me at least too heavily. Mostly I'm able to understand that kinks are ok and everyone approaches sex differently.

Oh and I thought of another reason I don't do one night stands. its because my dad and mom both did and I felt weird doing the same thing.
 
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