LOL...I'm quite distressed over having the pestle missing from my set....Its a nice marble one too....
Eyez iz wery wery bummed....
So my point is I have a classmate who is a good friend to me. We connect wonderfully and saw each other saturday and somehow I miss him and cant wait to see him tomorrow in school. So what does it mean to miss someone? Am I falling inlove? or merely have I grown to be so comfortable around him that I appreciate him as one of my best friends?
[I really feel like a confused teenager haha for once because I usually understand myself through introspection and retrospection but this; No]
I think people can miss others in lots of ways and for different reasons.
When you think about him... do you smile, and also and think about what it will feel like to see him smile?
Do you think about how you might make him smile? And smile while thinking about it?
Do you vividly recall how and why he made you smile last?
Those are some things that tell me I'm falling in love.
But then the J in me wants reality to catch up with fantasy. But I sure do love chasing fantasy because it's a potential reality until I know otherwise.
Because for once, I know for sure that I will not be hurt, maybe that is the difference. I don't have any worry because he knows me and I know him
Smiling, oh yes, if you find yourself smiling when you think of the person you are probably loving them.
I think I do want to make a homemade card, and I'm going to cut things out of magazines that represent our path up to this point, and the last item on it will be the Valentine's day trip.
I dunno about other INFJs, but I absolutely love doing things with people that matter to me. It's nice to give her a gift as a representation of your heart, but to actually look into her eyes after a wonderful day and sincerely give it....nothing beats that