I take it you are not a big proponent of fair play. When you tell me that what I'm talking about is not a big deal, that is a blanket devaluation of what I'm saying and it undermines what I say without directly addressing it. When you say that members should not worry about running the site, you are characterizing anyone that raises a concern as trying to run the site, which is purely rhetorical.
As far as your perspective, it appears that you take a 'might makes right' philosophy, which I suppose in a practical sense is a 'smart' way to live, but as far as personal values goes, is nothing to be proud of. You do not seem particularly interested in exactly what I have to say, as you seem to feel as though I am not entitled to question staff altogether.