[INFJ] Define the meaning of Boundaries

[ClevelandINTP]

I can live with consequences of being a doo-doo head. I have a tougher time accepting imbalanced bullshit especially after giving so much, etc or not being given a fair opportunity

I get that’s life but it’s a pattern with INFJs and me

 

[Wyote]

Now, I’m hyped up even more

Calm your tits

I followed that rhetorical question with ‘Good!’

The only point was to call that out when it’s been used in an argument by you is off

Much love

You have a habit of baiting. Stop it.

 

[ClevelandINTP]

Dude, there’s no bait there. If you’re going to quote me, get the context right and complete is all I was getting at

Stop assuming you know what I’m doing

 

[Infjente]

I came here mostly to learn after a bad experience with an INFJ with nothing but the best and positive intentions

Sometime after, another INFJ pulled similar stunts with me and the wound re-opened and got some Salt Bae for that A

Now, I’m hyped up even more

But can it be that your provocative behavior is a mixture of projecting your hurt on the INFJ forums, and to trigger sensitivity so you can study it (which can't be done with the actual INFJ('s) in your life?

 

[Deleted member 16771]

Stop assuming you know what I’m doing

Could you explain in complete prose with minimal subtext (none, preferably), what you are doing? As literally as possible.

 

[Wyote]

especially after giving so much

 

[ClevelandINTP]

But can it be that your provocative behavior is a mixture of projecting your hurt on the INFJ forums, and to trigger sensitivity so you can study it (which can't be done with the actual INFJ('s)?

No

I’m not malicious

 

[Wyote]

Stop assuming you know what I’m doing

But I'm just so dang good at it

 

[ClevelandINTP]

You’re not

 

[Infjente]

No

I’m not malicious

Why would that be malicious?

 

[Wyote]

No

I’m not malicious

 

[ClevelandINTP]

Could you explain in complete prose with minimal subtext (none, preferably), what you are doing? As literally as possible.

Boarding hard, posting authentically

 

[ClevelandINTP]

Why would that be malicious?

I feel like stirring negative emotions for your own benefit knowingly is malicious

 

[Wyote]

You’re not

 

[Infjente]

I feel like stirring negative emotions intentionally for your own benefit knowingly is malicious

Who said anything about intentionally?

 

[ClevelandINTP]

Who said anything about intentionally?

That’s what malice is

 

[Infjente]

That’s what malice is

I don't think you're doing it intentionally. But you are doing it. That's why I said I don't think you're a bad guy

 

[Wyote]

I don't think you're doing it intentionally. But you are doing it. That's why I said I don't think you're a bad guy

If you're doing it and don't even realize it, that's worse unless you're like ten years old

 

[ClevelandINTP]

I thought everyone used the ones and zeroes as their personal sounding board

 

[ClevelandINTP]

And yeah total Peter Pan here