I've been thinking about this for a while. There are qualities or characteristics in people which we like, and even idealize to a degree. Most of the time, it's pretty obvious why we like or idealize them, but sometimes it isn't.
1) So, what qualities do you idealize and why?
2) And (this is the question i'm truly curious about), what do you think this says about you?
I ask the second question, because we often idealize qualities rather than people but mistake one for the other. We may also idealize a person or a quality because we feel we lack the quality or characteristic, meaning that our like for someone is less about them and more about us.
So, what do you think?
1) So, what qualities do you idealize and why?
2) And (this is the question i'm truly curious about), what do you think this says about you?
I ask the second question, because we often idealize qualities rather than people but mistake one for the other. We may also idealize a person or a quality because we feel we lack the quality or characteristic, meaning that our like for someone is less about them and more about us.
So, what do you think?