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What is most important to you? (pick one)

1. having fun
2. being yourself & being understood
3. doing the right thing
4. being of service to others
5. understanding the world & yourself
7. winning; being the best
8. standing up for yourself, defending your rights
9. finding love

Without any doubt, because what would the point of the other 8 be without love.
 
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Wow, I can't believe how incredibly cocky this sounds...I'm going to have to go with number 7. I feel like I can cross off the rest of the list.
 
10. Getting great ideas. And, thereby, making a difference.
 
understanding the world & yourself

If you do this ^ then the rest will flow from that in roughly this order:


finding love
doing the right thing
being of service to others
being yourself & being understood
standing up for yourself, defending your rights
having fun
winning; being the best

You first need understanding to do all of those others.
 
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Quinlan said:
understanding the world & yourself

If you do this ^ then the rest will flow from that in roughly this order:


finding love
doing the right thing
being of service to others
being yourself & being understood
standing up for yourself, defending your rights
having fun
winning; being the best

You first need understanding to do all of those others.
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ding ding ding, we have a winnah! :becky:


cheers,
Ian
 
Mine is finding the love.

:angel:
 
In order from most to least important (sorry ... can't pick one):


1. having fun
5. understanding the world & yourself
4. being of service to others
2. being yourself & being understood
9. finding love
3. doing the right thing
7. winning; being the best
8. standing up for yourself, defending your rights
 
2. being yourself & being understood
5. understanding the world & yourself
between those two. I have some problems about what considered being 'myself', so I think I'm going to choose 5.

It's when I understand those two and what to do about it, I'm completely happy. Because I can love, achieve, hate, hurt, protect, nurture, destroy, and all in perfect understanding.
 
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which of these is most important to you and why?
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7. winning; being the best


Because it means I'm challenging myself to take advantage of all the gifts and talents that I've been born with or exposed to. When you push yourself to be the best you can be, to me, that means in all areas that are important to you and that not only enriches your own experiences, but also of those who interact with you. It totally locks you in the moment, and makes you strive for excellence in all that you are realistically capable of. I think that's the best way you can live your life.
 
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which of these is most important to you and why?
1. having fun - temporary joy?
2. being yourself & being understood - superficial validation?
3. doing the right thing - blind righteousness?
4. being of service to others - active kindness?
5. understanding the world & yourself - wisdom of particulars?
7. winning; being the best - success and pride?
8. standing up for yourself, defending your rights - power and freedom?
9. finding love - love and intimacy?
10. I need someone to save me! GAH!

Highlight to see my answer. :m075:
 
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