And I feel out of my depth already. He's really expressive verbally and I love that, I just choke on words if I try and do the same. He will just come right out and say stuff that frankly floors me and then I don't know where to go with that or reciprocate in a way that's meaningful to him. The last thing I want to do is come off indifferent but I fear that's how I'm appearing at times. I need a manual here... He says things which I read (Ni) as hints but hinting at what I'm uncertain and then I think he gets disappointed when I don't pick up the ball and run with it. We are also culturally different which adds another layer as well..