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So is anyone eventually going to make a tally of answers so we can divine some trends from this and maybe draw a conclusion? :tongue:

I'm watching trends.

You are pretty much fucked if you have an incurable STD or are racist.
 
Given that a person is a wonderful human being on the inside, could your form a romantic relationship with...

yes

Someone of a different race?
Someone who was deaf?
Someone who was blind?
Someone who was missing a limb?
Someone with a facial deformity?
Someone with an incurable STD?
Someone who is bisexual?
Someone with questionable hygiene?
Someone who smokes?
Someone with a lot of tattoos?
Someone with a lot of piercings?
Someone who is a bad dresser?
Someone who is poor?
Someone who is very rich?
Someone who is very hairy?
Someone who has a lot of acne?
Someone who looks just like your parent?
Someone who is considerably overweight?
Someone who is considerably underweight?
Someone who is bulked up with muscle?
Someone who was very short?
Someone who was very tall?

Given that a person was very attractive, could your form a romantic relationship with...
yes
Someone who is cheap?
no
Someone who is homophobic?
Someone who is racist?
Someone who lacks a sense of humor?

yes
Someone who uses poor grammar/speech?
Someone who cusses?
Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments?
Someone who has had a history of mental illness?
Someone who has had a history of substance abuse?
Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system?
Someone with opposing political beliefs?

no
Someone who gossips?

yes
Someone who has a mental disability?
Someone who isn't too intelligent?
Someone who is far more intelligent than you?
Someone who is arrogant?

no
Someone who is a pushover?

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Awesome thread idea...
I want to play!

Given that a person is a wonderful human being on the inside, could your form a romantic relationship with...

Someone of a different race? I'm doing that now
Someone who was deaf? I've always wanted to learn sign language
Someone who was blind? I think so
Someone who was missing a limb? Sure
Someone with a facial deformity? Wouldn't be my first choice, but if I loved the person. Yeah.
Someone with an incurable STD? It depends what the STD is. If it's something that a little cream can fix, then yeah. If not, more than likely no.
Someone who is bisexual? That's hot--so yeah!
Someone with questionable hygiene? I wouldn't be attracted to this, so no. If anything, it would repel me.
Someone who smokes? No way jose!
Someone with a lot of tattoos? Tattoos are awesome, so yeah!
Someone with a lot of piercings? Probably yes
Someone who is a bad dresser? Of course, I can make him over
Someone who is poor? Sure
Someone who is very rich? Hell YEAH!
Someone who is very hairy? Probably
Someone who has a lot of acne? Yes
Someone who looks just like your parent? Nooo that's weird.
Someone who is considerably overweight? Maybe...but leaning towards no.
Someone who is considerably underweight? Maybe...but leaning towards yes.
Someone who is bulked up with muscle? As long as it's not scary, sure.
Someone who was very short? My bf is my height, so yeah. *sigh*
Someone who was very tall? I love tall guys! Yeah!

Given that a person was very attractive, could your form a romantic relationship with...

Someone who is cheap? I'll be the cheap one in our relationship, lol, so no.
Someone who is homophobic? No
Someone who is racist? Hell no.
Someone who lacks a sense of humor? No
Someone who uses poor grammar/speech? Probably not--if they were a foreigner, it would be excusable.
Someone who cusses? Sure, I cuss.
Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments? Sure.
Someone who has had a history of mental illness? Depends what it is
Someone who has had a history of substance abuse? No
Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system? No
Someone with opposing political beliefs? Probably not.
Someone who gossips? Err...I guess? (who cares?)
Someone who has a mental disability? Probably not
Someone who isn't too intelligent? Sorry, but no
Someone who is far more intelligent than you? I dunno...
Someone who is arrogant? No! NO! NOOOOO! I HATE arrogance.
Someone who is a pushover? No, that would be annoying.
 
So is anyone eventually going to make a tally of answers so we can divine some trends from this and maybe draw a conclusion? :tongue:

Thanks for volunteering.
 
Someone of a different race? yeah
Someone who was deaf? no
Someone who was blind? yeah
Someone who was missing a limb? maybe
Someone with a facial deformity? maybe
Someone with an incurable STD? no
Someone who is bisexual? no
Someone with questionable hygiene? no
Someone who smokes? no
Someone with a lot of tattoos? maybe
Someone with a lot of piercings? maybe
Someone who is a bad dresser? maybe
Someone who is poor? maybe
Someone who is very rich? yes
Someone who is very hairy? maybe
Someone who has a lot of acne? nah?
Someone who looks just like your parent? which parent?
Someone who is considerably overweight? no
Someone who is considerably underweight? no
Someone who is bulked up with muscle? hell yes!
Someone who was very short? maybe
Someone who was very tall? double hell yeah!
 
Someone who is cheap? no
Someone who is homophobic? no
Someone who is racist? no
Someone who lacks a sense of humor? ????????????????
Someone who uses poor grammar/speech? maybe
Someone who cusses? hehe, yes
Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments? Oh, that's me....
Someone who has had a history of mental illness? depends
Someone who has had a history of substance abuse? no
Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system? sure
Someone with opposing political beliefs? no
Someone who gossips? no
Someone who has a mental disability? depends
Someone who isn't too intelligent? maybe....?
Someone who is far more intelligent than you? YES
Someone who is arrogant? no
Someone who is a pushover? no
 
Given that a person is a wonderful human being on the inside, could your form a romantic relationship with...

Someone of a different race? Yes
Someone who was deaf? No
Someone who was blind? Maybe
Someone who was missing a limb? No
Someone with a facial deformity? No
Someone with an incurable STD? No
Someone who is bisexual? No
Someone with questionable hygiene? No
Someone who smokes? Depends on what they smoke.
Someone with a lot of tattoos? Depends on how many/where they are.
Someone with a lot of piercings? Sure, maybe
Someone who is a bad dresser? How bad are we talkin' here...
Someone who is poor? Yes
Someone who is very rich? Yes
Someone who is very hairy? No
Someone who has a lot of acne? No
Someone who looks just like your parent? No
Someone who is considerably overweight? No
Someone who is considerably underweight? Maybe, as long as they're healthy
Someone who is bulked up with muscle? Toned is ok. Bulky women...not so much
Someone who was very short? I'm pretty short, so yeah, about 5' is perfect
Someone who was very tall? Not impossible, but I'd feel insecure about the girl feeling like I wasn't good enough (tall enough).

Given that a person was very attractive, could your form a romantic relationship with...

Someone who is cheap? Yes
Someone who is homophobic? Yes
Someone who is racist? No
Someone who lacks a sense of humor? No
Someone who uses poor grammar/speech? Yes
Someone who cusses? Hahaha, yes
Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments? C'mon, everyone does that
Someone who has had a history of mental illness? No
Someone who has had a history of substance abuse? If they're sober now, maybe
Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system? No
Someone with opposing political beliefs? Eeesh... I hate politics.
Someone who gossips? No
Someone who has a mental disability? No
Someone who isn't too intelligent? No
Someone who is far more intelligent than you? Yes
Someone who is arrogant? No
Someone who is a pushover? No
 
So is anyone eventually going to make a tally of answers so we can divine some trends from this and maybe draw a conclusion? :tongue:

Not me! :m154: I nominate you!


So you're a lesbian? That really makes sense; now I understand why you come off as a women yet like women.
 
Bold is yes, italic is no, underline is "maybe"

Someone of a different race?
Someone who was deaf?
Someone who was blind?
Someone who was missing a limb?
Someone with a facial deformity?
Someone with an incurable STD?
Someone who is bisexual? (I'm one, and I went to prom with one)
Someone with questionable hygiene?
Someone who smokes? Depends on what they're smoking >.>
Someone with a lot of tattoos?
Someone with a lot of piercings?
Someone who is a bad dresser?
Someone who is poor?
Someone who is very rich?
Someone who is very hairy?
Someone who has a lot of acne?
Someone who looks just like your parent?
Someone who is considerably overweight?
Someone who is considerably underweight?
Someone who is bulked up with muscle? There's a limit...
Someone who was very short?
Someone who was very tall?



Someone who is cheap?
Someone who is homophobic?
Someone who is racist?
Someone who lacks a sense of humor?
Someone who uses poor grammar/speech? Sometimes my mom's poor English makes me facepalm.
Someone who cusses?
Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments?
Someone who has had a history of mental illness?
Someone who has had a history of substance abuse?
Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system?
Someone with opposing political beliefs?
Someone who gossips?
Someone who has a mental disability?
Someone who isn't too intelligent? My dad went to college at 15. My mom almost didn't get into college the year she applied. Guess which parent I like better...
Someone who is far more intelligent than you?
Someone who is arrogant?
Someone who is a pushover? Again, my prom date.
 
In a non romantic context, the only things that would bother me are the following:


Someone with an incurable STD
Someone who has had a history of mental illness
Someone who has had a history of substance abuse
Someone who has a mental disability


Everything else is dandy.
 
Someone of a different race? Yes
Someone who was deaf? Yes (good chance to learn the language)
Someone who was blind? Tough, but yes
Someone who was missing a limb? Yes
Someone with a facial deformity? Depends on the magnitude. Probably not, though~
Someone with an incurable STD? No
Someone who is bisexual? Yes
Someone with questionable hygiene? Very much no.
Someone who smokes? Yes, but I'd try to 'persuade' them to stop
Someone with a lot of tattoos? No
Someone with a lot of piercings? No
Someone who is a bad dresser? Yes (it can always be fixed by burning their wardrobe)
Someone who is poor? Yes
Someone who is very rich? Yes
Someone who is very hairy? Yes (because razors exist)
Someone who has a lot of acne? Yes (as do facial products)
Someone who looks just like your parent? No.
Someone who is considerably overweight? No
Someone who is considerably underweight? No
Someone who is bulked up with muscle? No
Someone who was very short? Depends. Down my size, yes, shorter... I wouldn't be able to see him <.<
Someone who was very tall? Within limits, yes

Given that a person was very attractive, could your form a romantic relationship with...

Someone who is cheap? No
Someone who is homophobic? No
Someone who is racist? No
Someone who lacks a sense of humor? Probably not, given that humor is often related to intelligence.
Someone who uses poor grammar/speech? Yes (and then I teach him until he burns a hole in the chair)
Someone who cusses? Yes (if they can compete with me~)
Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments? No
Someone who has had a history of mental illness? Depends on what the record says
Someone who has had a history of substance abuse? Yes, if he's been clean for a long time. No, if it was only last year
Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system? Yes (as long as they don't try to convert me)
Someone with opposing political beliefs? Yes (same applies)
Someone who gossips? Yes
Someone who has a mental disability? Depends on the degree
Someone who isn't too intelligent? Probably not
Someone who is far more intelligent than you? Yes (as long as he doesn't ridiculize m about it)
Someone who is arrogant? No
Someone who is a pushover?No (just because I have and wouldn't go there again)
 
Someone of a different race? Yes
Someone who was deaf? No
Someone who was blind? yes
Someone who was missing a limb? yes
Someone with a facial deformity? How bad are we talking? Like harelip or elephant man? Yes if it were mild, no if it was distracting.
Someone with an incurable STD? Hell No. Sorry, I have a thing about STDS. I might not date you if you've had any kind ever.
Someone who is bisexual? yes
Someone with questionable hygiene? maybe. It would depend how bad it was. But again, I'm kind of serious about this too.
Someone who smokes? yes
Someone with a lot of tattoos? yes
Someone with a lot of piercings? yes
Someone who is a bad dresser? yes.
Someone who is poor? yes
Someone who is very rich? Probably not. Been there, done that. i don't like feeling like an object or best option thanks. Screw you rich ex boyfriends. I will not date men with money.
Someone who is very hairy? maybe
Someone who has a lot of acne? maybe. I'm not shallow.
Someone who looks just like your parent? no
Someone who is considerably overweight? yes
Someone who is considerably underweight?yes
Someone who is bulked up with muscle? no
Someone who was very short? yes
Someone who was very tall? yes

Given that a person was very attractive, could your form a romantic relationship with...

Someone who is cheap? Sure. But not embarrassingly so.
Someone who is homophobic? no
Someone who is racist? no
Someone who lacks a sense of humor? I don’t think they’d like me. I've been told that I *play too much*. Humorless people find me grating, i'd wager.
Someone who uses poor grammar/speech? Sure, my lazy ass has no room to talk.
Someone who cusses? Fuck no. Now why in the fucking fuck would I do that? I'm a goddamn LADY with an image to maintain, you crude cur!
Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments? Yes because that is awesome and i don't want to be the only one who does it. I am the queen of this.
Someone who has had a history of mental illness? No, unless you have that shit under control. Bi polar people are mad cool, so I guess I'd say maybe.
Someone who has had a history of substance abuse? Abuse? No. but only because of my issues, no reflection on them. But if you like to party, sure. I'll only smoke pot, but you can do yer thing. I don't care.
Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system? I'd like that very much actually. I actually tend to seek this.
Someone with opposing political beliefs? Maybe, as long as I respected their intelligence. Because my arrogant ass will just write you off as stupid if you can't back up what you believe.
Someone who gossips? Gossip is funny, and I never believe a word of it, but no.
Someone who has a mental disability? I would find it difficult to relate. So its a tentative no.
Someone who isn't too intelligent? DEALBREAKER DEALBREAKER. NEVER NEVER NEVER. DO NOT WANT.
Someone who is far more intelligent than you? Only way too go, but this severely limits my options.
Someone who is arrogant? Hawt. Arrogance is kind of a turn on. Especially quiet arrogance.
Someone who is a pushover? It depends on how you mean. Like sexually or just a general sort of wimp. No to wimps. For their own safety. I wouldn't abuse them, but I'd grow bored and lose respect.
 
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No one wants STDs haha XD

I suppose for me it doesn't matter if they aren't a blood donor. I could date someone with an STD because, basically, how am I going to be infected? But the real question is why would I even date at all.
 
No one wants STDs haha XD

I suppose for me it doesn't matter if they aren't a blood donor. I could date someone with an STD because, basically, how am I going to be infected? But the real question is why would I even date at all.

Good question. Why do some asexual people end up in relationships?
 
I imagine you can get something fulfilling out of loving a person, even if there's nothing sexual involved
 
Probably because they're the romantic asexual type. I'm what you call an aromantic asexual with absolutely no interest in human relationships at all. There are some asexuals who have some desire to have a relationship, but I don't understand how the relationships is any different than friendship. Their buisness, I guess.
 
Given that a person is a wonderful human being on the inside, could your form a romantic relationship with...

Someone of a different race? ya no problem
Someone who was deaf? if we could communicate properly
Someone who was blind? same as above
Someone who was missing a limb? id find it difficult but wouldnt rule it out
Someone with a facial deformity? probably
Someone with an incurable STD? it would be very unfortunate if i found out after i decided i liked the person
Someone who is bisexual? yup,been there
Someone with questionable hygiene? hmm,after throwing them in the shower ;)
Someone who smokes? yup,have done
Someone with a lot of tattoos? as above
Someone with a lot of piercings? as above
Someone who is a bad dresser? alas as above
Someone who is poor? money doesnt matter if were happy
Someone who is very rich? sure
Someone who is very hairy? i find hair a bit off putting
Someone who has a lot of acne? yup
Someone who looks just like your parent? no...too weird
Someone who is considerably overweight? ya
Someone who is considerably underweight? ya,wouldnt want to break them though!
Someone who is bulked up with muscle? ya
Someone who was very short? no, im quite tall and feel awkward
Someone who was very tall? yes please!

Given that a person was very attractive, could your form a romantic relationship with...

Someone who is cheap? yup
Someone who is homophobic? nope
Someone who is racist? no way
Someone who lacks a sense of humor? life would be a bit of a bore but if they had other good qualities perhaps
Someone who uses poor grammar/speech? guess so
Someone who cusses? yup
Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments? id be mortified
Someone who has had a history of mental illness? ya, have done
Someone who has had a history of substance abuse? yes
Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system? wouldnt matter to me
Someone with opposing political beliefs? if intersting debates followed
Someone who gossips? no,trust is too important
Someone who has a mental disability? such as?
Someone who isn't too intelligent? if they werent dumb
Someone who is far more intelligent than you? ya id find it a challenge
Someone who is arrogant? could do
Someone who is a pushover? would have to see...maybe
 
Given that a person is a wonderful human being on the inside, could your form a romantic relationship with...

Someone of a different race? Yes
Someone who was deaf? Yes
Someone who was blind? Yes
Someone who was missing a limb? Yes
Someone with a facial deformity? What sort?
Someone with an incurable STD? No
Someone who is bisexual? Yes
Someone with questionable hygiene? No
Someone who smokes? Yes
Someone with a lot of tattoos? Depends on the tattoos, probably not
Someone with a lot of piercings? No
Someone who is a bad dresser? Yes
Someone who is poor? Yes
Someone who is very rich? Yes
Someone who is very hairy? Yes
Someone who has a lot of acne? Yes
Someone who looks just like your parent? I have a feeling I wouldn't be able to. Disturbing
Someone who is considerably overweight? No, I don't want to be crushed!
Someone who is considerably underweight? If it's from an eating disorder, no way. Some sort of metabolism thing, sure.
Someone who is bulked up with muscle? Yes
Someone who was very short? Yes
Someone who was very tall? Yes

Given that a person was very attractive, could your form a romantic relationship with...

Someone who is cheap? No
Someone who is homophobic? No
Someone who is racist? No
Someone who lacks a sense of humor? Maybe.
Someone who uses poor grammar/speech? All the time? No
Someone who cusses? Yes
Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments? Yes
Someone who has had a history of mental illness? Depends on the illness.
Someone who has had a history of substance abuse? No
Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system? Yes
Someone with opposing political beliefs? Yes
Someone who gossips? No
Someone who has a mental disability? Depends, but if I couldn't be sure they really knew what love was, I'd say no.
Someone who isn't too intelligent? How far down the scale are we talking here?
Someone who is far more intelligent than you? Likely
Someone who is arrogant? Likely not, unless I see a way to fix it
Someone who is a pushover? Yes, and I'd help them overcome it
 
Probably because they're the romantic asexual type. I'm what you call an aromantic asexual with absolutely no interest in human relationships at all. There are some asexuals who have some desire to have a relationship, but I don't understand how the relationships is any different than friendship. Their buisness, I guess.


Exactly. How does that differ from friendships? And supposedly, they can even "engage in purely emotionally based relationships" with same sex individuals. What does that mean? Cause I have pretty strong emotions about my male friends without being an asexual or a homosexual.


Bah. One either has the need to fuck, or he hasn't. This kind of bullshit is only to give people the false impression that they are somehow unique.