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  1. Satya

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    Let's measure INFJ standards. Be honest now.

    Given that a person is a wonderful human being on the inside, could your form a romantic relationship with...

    Someone of a different race?
    Someone who was deaf?
    Someone who was blind?
    Someone who was missing a limb?
    Someone with a facial deformity?
    Someone with an incurable STD?
    Someone who is bisexual?
    Someone with questionable hygiene?
    Someone who smokes?
    Someone with a lot of tattoos?
    Someone with a lot of piercings?
    Someone who is a bad dresser?
    Someone who is poor?
    Someone who is very rich?
    Someone who is very hairy?
    Someone who has a lot of acne?
    Someone who looks just like your parent?
    Someone who is considerably overweight?
    Someone who is considerably underweight?
    Someone who is bulked up with muscle?
    Someone who was very short?
    Someone who was very tall?

    Given that a person was very attractive, could your form a romantic relationship with...

    Someone who is cheap?
    Someone who is homophobic?
    Someone who is racist?
    Someone who lacks a sense of humor?
    Someone who uses poor grammar/speech?
    Someone who cusses?
    Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments?
    Someone who has had a history of mental illness?
    Someone who has had a history of substance abuse?
    Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system?
    Someone with opposing political beliefs?
    Someone who gossips?
    Someone who has a mental disability?
    Someone who isn't too intelligent?
    Someone who is far more intelligent than you?
    Someone who is arrogant?
    Someone who is a pushover?



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    Yes
    Someone of a different race?
    Someone who is bisexual?
    Someone who smokes?
    Someone with a lot of tattoos?
    Someone with a lot of piercings?
    Someone who is a bad dresser?
    Someone who is poor?
    Someone who is very rich?
    Someone who has a lot of acne?
    Someone who was very short?
    Someone who was very tall?
    Someone who cusses?
    Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments?
    Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system?
    Someone who is far more intelligent than you?
    Someone who is arrogant?

    No
    Someone who was deaf?
    Someone who was blind?
    Someone who was missing a limb?
    Someone with a facial deformity?
    Someone with an incurable STD?
    Someone with questionable hygiene?
    Someone who is very hairy?
    Someone who looks just like your parent?
    Someone who is considerably overweight?
    Someone who is considerably underweight?
    Someone who is bulked up with muscle?
    Someone who is cheap?
    Someone who is homophobic?
    Someone who is racist?
    Someone who lacks a sense of humor?
    Someone who uses poor grammar/speech?
    Someone with opposing political beliefs?
    Someone who gossips?
    Someone who has a mental disability?
    Someone who isn't too intelligent?
    Someone who is a pushover?

    Depends...
    Someone who has had a history of mental illness?
    Someone who has had a history of substance abuse?
     
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    Given that a person is a wonderful human being on the inside, could your form a long term romantic relationship with...

    Someone of a different race? Yes, but to be fair, there are some races I am less attracted to than others, but merely on a romantic level. Does that make me piggish? I guess...
    Someone who was deaf? Yes, god yes. I met a girl at a show, a show of all places! that was deaf and her energy was just too strong. I think I fell in love with her.
    Someone who was blind? This might be even easier for me to do because personally I'd rather be blind than deaf. In all honesty, if a person was deaf or blind wouldn't affect me in the long run. I'd be a dick and probably make a judgement before I met them like I'd never end up in a romantic relationship with them, but I've met kind and loving people who are blind or deaf.
    Someone who was missing a limb? Without a doubt
    Someone with a facial deformity? Long term, yes. Short term I'd probably be shallow. Personality would eventually shine through for me.
    Someone with an incurable STD? Maybe...I'm not too sure on this one...
    Someone who is bisexual? Yes, if they were in love with me and I was in love with them, why should their sexuality matter in the least bit?
    Someone with questionable hygiene? No, just a simple no.
    Someone who smokes? Yes
    Someone with a lot of tattoos? Yes
    Someone with a lot of piercings? yes
    Someone who is a bad dresser? i'm pretty sure I'm the dictionary definition of a bad dresser.
    Someone who is poor? Yes
    Someone who is very rich? Yes, but not for the money. I couldn't stand a spoiled or over the top lifestyle though.
    Someone who is very hairy? Like chest and back hair on a woman? If I asked them about it and they were willing to work with it, yes.
    Someone who has a lot of acne? I'd be a douche before I met them...but personality would shine through
    Someone who looks just like your parent? As scary as it would be, it wouldn't stop me
    Someone who is considerably overweight? This is where I'm a dick and say no, but i mean obese
    Someone who is considerably underweight? Once again, I'd probably be a dick and have to say no, but im talking about skin and bones in my defense (andI'm assuming this is when I meet them)
    Someone who is bulked up with muscle? A woman strong than me? I'm sure plenty of them exist and that would be sweet, she could fight my fights for me!

    Given that a person was very attractive, could your form a long term romantic relationship with...

    Someone who is cheap? No
    Someone who is homophobic? No
    Someone who is racist? No
    Someone who lacks a sense of humor? GOD NO
    Someone who uses poor grammar/speech? Never, i'd go insane
    Someone who cusses?Yes, I swear like a sailor
    Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments? Yeah, because I have a habit of doing the same thing
    Someone who has had a history of mental illness? Yes
    Someone who has had a history of substance abuse? If they could fall in love with me despite it, then there is no question in my mind that it's a yes
    Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system? Who cares, it's personal and I leave it at that.
    Someone with opposing political beliefs? I'd have a lot of fun debating with them
    Someone who gossips? Depends, if it's in a distasteful way about other people, no
    Someone who has a mental disability? I don't think I have the strength for this...and that makes me feel bad to say.
    Someone who isn't too intelligent? No, I love witty and intellectual banter.I'd get bored so fast
    Someone who is far more intelligent than you? I'm the smartest person who ever lived so I don't have to worry about this
    Someone who is arrogant? No!!!
    Someone who is a pushover? Also a big No!!!
     
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    Given that a person is a wonderful human being on the inside, could your form a romantic relationship with...

    So to me, this means that there personality is perfect for me.

    Someone of a different race? Yes. I am actually very attracted to middle-eastern men, don't really know why.
    Someone who was deaf? No, clear communication is too important to me
    Someone who was blind? Would take time, leaning yes.
    Someone who was missing a limb? Doubtful, no.
    Someone with a facial deformity? Very doubtful, no.
    Someone with an incurable STD? No, I am too afraid of disease.
    Someone who is bisexual? Yes
    Someone with questionable hygiene? No
    Someone who smokes? Depends how much, likely no.
    Someone with a lot of tattoos? Yes, but there would be a limit.
    Someone with a lot of piercings? Yes
    Someone who is a bad dresser? Yes
    Someone who is poor? Yes
    Someone who is very rich? Yes
    Someone who is very hairy? Yes (that is actually a pretty strong turn on for me, not sure why, but it is :embarassed:)
    Someone who has a lot of acne? No
    Someone who looks just like your parent? Leaning yes.
    Someone who is considerably overweight? No
    Someone who is considerably underweight? Leaning yes.
    Someone who is bulked up with muscle? Yes (this is also a very strong turn on for me :embarassed:)
    Someone who is very short? Yes
    Someone who is very tall? Yes

    Given that a person was very attractive, could your form a romantic relationship with...

    Someone who is cheap? Yes
    Someone who is homophobic? Obviously, no. haha.
    Someone who is racist? Leaning, no.*
    Someone who lacks a sense of humor? Yes*
    Someone who uses poor grammar/speech? No, again communication is too important to me.
    Someone who cusses? Yes
    Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments? Leaning, yes.*
    Someone who has had a history of mental illness? Leaning Yes.
    Someone who has had a history of substance abuse? Depends on the drug. Leaning No.
    Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system? Yes. No if they didn't except mine.
    Someone with opposing political beliefs? Yes*
    Someone who gossips? No
    Someone who has a mental disability? No
    Someone who isn't too intelligent? No
    Someone who is far more intelligent than you? No
    Someone who is arrogant? Yes*
    Someone who is a pushover? No

    *reason for this response is because I would try to work this out with them and fix it (I see it worthwhile to try to go over).
     
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    The answer is no, for non-superficial reasons.
     
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    Given that a person is a wonderful human being on the inside, could your form a romantic relationship with...

    Someone of a different race?
    Yes

    Someone who was deaf?
    If I was able to communicate with them

    Someone who was blind?
    Sure :)

    Someone who was missing a limb?
    It'd take some getting used to

    Someone with a facial deformity?
    Honestly, I would find this harder -- I'd have to actually be in the situation to tell, I think

    Someone with an incurable STD?
    Depends

    Someone who is bisexual?
    Sure

    Someone with questionable hygiene?
    Uuh... >.>

    Someone who smokes?
    Yes

    Someone with a lot of tattoos?
    Yes

    Someone with a lot of piercings?
    Yes

    Someone who is a bad dresser?
    Yes

    Someone who is poor?
    Yes

    Someone who is very rich?
    Yes plz

    Someone who is very hairy?
    Heh, sure, why not

    Someone who has a lot of acne?
    Sure

    Someone who looks just like your parent?
    It'd be a little creepy...

    Someone who is considerably overweight?
    That'd be difficult

    Someone who is considerably underweight?
    Also a bit difficult

    Someone who is bulked up with muscle?
    I could handle this, sure

    Someone who was very short?
    Hee, sure

    Someone who was very tall?
    I've dated someone very tall before, so sure


    Given that a person was very attractive, could your form a romantic relationship with...

    Someone who is cheap?
    Depends

    Someone who is homophobic?
    No

    Someone who is racist?
    Probably not

    Someone who lacks a sense of humor?
    No

    Someone who uses poor grammar/speech?
    Depends

    Someone who cusses?
    Why the fuck not?

    Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments?
    Sure

    Someone who has had a history of mental illness?
    Hm, maybe

    Someone who has had a history of substance abuse?
    I'd be very careful...maybe not

    Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system?
    Sure, although it depends on how pushy they are

    Someone with opposing political beliefs?
    See above

    Someone who gossips?
    I could handle that...to a degree

    Someone who has a mental disability?
    Depends on the disability

    Someone who isn't too intelligent?
    As long as they're kind and caring, then that's fine...kinda cute, actually

    Someone who is far more intelligent than you?
    Pssh, like that'll happen ;) As long as they're kind and caring...no assholes

    Someone who is arrogant?
    We'd have issues

    Someone who is a pushover?
    It...would be stressful
     
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    Given that a person is a wonderful human being on the inside, could your form a romantic relationship with...

    Someone of a different race? YES. In fact, it’s my preference.
    Someone who was deaf? Yes.
    Someone who was blind? Yes.
    Someone who was missing a limb? Yes
    Someone with a facial deformity? Depends on how severe. Cleft lip and palate, sure.
    Someone with an incurable STD? Depends – condoms offer some protection now.
    Someone who is bisexual? Probably not.
    Someone with questionable hygiene? No.
    Someone who smokes? No. I’m allergic.
    Someone with a lot of tattoos? Sure, if they’re cool or beautiful.
    Someone with a lot of piercings? Probably not.
    Someone who is a bad dresser? Sure. Dressing can change.
    Someone who is poor? Yes.
    Someone who is very rich? Depends on his attitude.
    Someone who is very hairy? Sure.
    Someone who has a lot of acne? Probably not.
    Someone who looks just like your parent? No. That would be scary.
    Someone who is considerably overweight? Maybe...is he mobile? Does he at least like exercising?
    Someone who is considerably underweight? Probably not. I wouldn’t want to break him.
    Someone who is bulked up with muscle? I wouldn’t mind it, as long as it’s not due to steroids..
    Someone who was very short? He’d have to be pretty darn short...but if I have to look down at him probably not.
    Someone who was very tall? Sure, as long as he doesn’t mind.

    Given that a person was very attractive, could your form a romantic relationship with...

    Someone who is cheap? To a point.
    Someone who is homophobic? No.
    Someone who is racist? Absolutely not.
    Someone who lacks a sense of humor? No.
    Someone who uses poor grammar/speech? Call me a grammar nazi, but...no.
    Someone who cusses? I couldn’t stand f-bombs every five minutes. But I can understand if he’s mad, or if it’s an accident.
    Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments? Depends on how dumb...but probably not.
    Someone who has had a history of mental illness? Yes, as long as they consistently take their meds.
    Someone who has had a history of substance abuse? As long as they’re committed to their sobriety, yes.
    Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system? I’d have to say no.
    Someone with opposing political beliefs? Yes as long as he’s not too vocal about it. I need tolerance.
    Someone who gossips? Not consistently, no.
    Someone who has a mental disability? What kind of mental disability are we talking about? Isn’t that the same as the mental illness question?
    Someone who isn't too intelligent? No.
    Someone who is far more intelligent than you? Yes, as long as he doesn’t mind that I’m not on his level.
    Someone who is arrogant? No. Can’t do it anymore.
    Someone who is a pushover? No.
     
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    Someone of a different race? Absolutely Yes
    Someone who was deaf? Probably not
    Someone who was blind? Probably not
    Someone who was missing a limb? Probably yes, it does matter what limb though
    Someone with a facial deformity? Maybe
    Someone with an incurable STD? No
    Someone who is bisexual? Yes, but I'd be afraid of her leaving me for a woman.
    Someone with questionable hygiene? Eww, I guess that would depend on what it is.
    Someone who smokes? No, I hate smoke.
    Someone with a lot of tattoos? Yes
    Someone with a lot of piercings? Most likely, though double lip rings are a turn off.
    Someone who is a bad dresser? Yes, I don't care that much anyway.
    Someone who is poor? Yes
    Someone who is very rich? Yes, though I'm sure their family would try to drive me off.
    Someone who is very hairy? Sure
    Someone who has a lot of acne? Yes
    Someone who looks just like your parent? HELL NO
    Someone who is considerably overweight? No
    Someone who is considerably underweight? That depends on how you define considerably underweight, but probably not.
    Someone who is bulked up with muscle? Yes
    Someone who was very short? Yes, I have actually.
    Someone who was very tall? Yes

    Given that a person was very attractive, could your form a romantic relationship with...

    Someone who is cheap? Yes
    Someone who is homophobic? Yes as long as they aren't horrible about it.
    Someone who is racist? Probably not
    Someone who lacks a sense of humor? Yes
    Someone who uses poor grammar/speech? No
    Someone who cusses? Fuck yeah
    Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments? Yes
    Someone who has had a history of mental illness? Yes
    Someone who has had a history of substance abuse? Yes as long as it is a "history"
    Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system? Yes
    Someone with opposing political beliefs? Yes
    Someone who gossips? That depends on what they gossip about.
    Someone who has a mental disability? Yes
    Someone who isn't too intelligent? Probably not
    Someone who is far more intelligent than you? Yes
    Someone who is arrogant? Yes
    Someone who is a pushover? Yes
     
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    So this is will be fun, but the problem for me, is that while I can imagine appreciating anyone who is "a wonderful person on the inside" and can imagine having a very cooperative and understanding relationship with them, as far as romantic relationships go, those relationships will immediately be held up to deep scrutiny for my sense for real compatibility(thoughtful idea people/physical traits etc. etc.) and can talk myself out of "hope" for the relationship in a motivated way. I guess I should assume that that is a given in so many words and sort of a different topic, but I felt the need to mention it anyway. And being male, physical attraction is still objectively about physical traits, so without a couple of key ingredients for me, the whole necessary initial problem of me talking myself out of "hope" for a particular relationship may not even begin. It'll be fun to explore a few of these!


    Someone of a different race? Definately! In fact, I think it should happen more often in general for various reaons.

    Someone with an incurable STD? If I was thoroughly sure of compatibility, I would accept this because I'd be interested in the two of us being exclusive anyway, so I guess we'd just share her STD!

    Someone with questionable hygiene? I could handle this unless it was REALLY bad, because I have OCD, and it'd be hard to get over the thought that they are somehow tainting my spaces with their filth.

    Someone who smokes? No, I'm afraid not. It's like a convenient little flag that people raise that states loudly "I really am stupid." I don't want to raise a stupidity flag, and couldn't tolerate someone who was all too willing to... If anyone is offended by that, I guess try to use it as motivation. I have tried to motivate a friend of mine with that in the past, trying to convince them that they were making it awefuly hard for many people to notice that they have a brain worth respecting.

    Someone who has a lot of acne? I don't mind in the least!

    Someone who is considerably underweight? No way.

    Someone who is bulked up with muscle? No way!

    Someone who was very tall? It's so hard to imagine stomaching dating a a girl who was taller than me, but I'm sure I could do it.

    Someone who lacks a sense of humor? It depends on if I can feel comfortable laughing about our conversations even though she isn't.

    Someone who uses poor grammar/speech? Just as long as the ideas are still flowing.

    Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments? Bring it on!!!

    Someone who has had a history of mental illness? So long as it wasn't something that made her tooooo.... unstable.

    Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system? I suppose as long as they were willing to explore it completely openly and honestly, and ok with dissecting it bit for bit what is going on, and all of the various "why"s of it all.

    Someone who has a mental disability? Unfortunately no. I need people who are excited by ideas.

    Someone who isn't too intelligent? No, it just wouldn't work. Like I said above, I need people who are excited by ideas.

    Someone who is far more intelligent than you? Hell yeah, so long as I didn't think there was any signs of them possibly wanting to leave me over it.
     
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    Someone of a different race? [yes]
    Someone who was deaf? [yes]
    Someone who was blind? [yes]
    Someone who was missing a limb? [yes]
    Someone with a facial deformity? [maybe]
    Someone with an incurable STD? [no]
    Someone who is bisexual? [maybe]
    Someone with questionable hygiene? [no]
    Someone who smokes? [i don't like it...maybe no]
    Someone with a lot of tattoos? [i don't like it...maybe yes]
    Someone with a lot of piercings? [i don't like it...maybe no]
    Someone who is a bad dresser? [yes]
    Someone who is poor? [yes...but my family will not like it]
    Someone who is very rich? [yes]
    Someone who is very hairy? [most likely not]
    Someone who has a lot of acne? [yes]
    Someone who looks just like your parent? [no o-o]
    Someone who is considerably overweight? [no]
    Someone who is considerably underweight? [no]
    Someone who is bulked up with muscle? [yes]
    Someone who was very short? [no]
    Someone who was very tall? [yes]

    Given that a person was very attractive, could your form a romantic relationship with...

    Someone who is cheap? [maybe]
    Someone who is homophobic? [no]
    Someone who is racist? [no]
    Someone who lacks a sense of humor? [no]
    Someone who uses poor grammar/speech? [yes]
    Someone who cusses? [sure...who doesn't cuss..]
    Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments? [yes]
    Someone who has had a history of mental illness? [maybe]
    Someone who has had a history of substance abuse? [maybe]
    Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system? [yes]
    Someone with opposing political beliefs? [yes]
    Someone who gossips? [sure]
    Someone who has a mental disability? [maybe, depends]
    Someone who isn't too intelligent? [ehh...maybe..]
    Someone who is far more intelligent than you? [sure]
    Someone who is arrogant? [NO]
    Someone who is a pushover?[no]
     
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    Given that a person is a wonderful human being on the inside, could your form a romantic relationship with...

    Someone of a different race? Have done so
    Someone who was deaf? Sure
    Someone who was blind? Yep
    Someone who was missing a limb? Yea
    Someone with a facial deformity? Most likely yes
    Someone with an incurable STD? No
    Someone who is bisexual? No
    Someone with questionable hygiene? Probably not
    Someone who smokes? Doubtful
    Someone with a lot of tattoos? Possibly
    Someone with a lot of piercings? Depends where they are
    Someone who is a bad dresser? Sure
    Someone who is poor? Yea
    Someone who is very rich? Yep
    Someone who is very hairy? As long as they shaved =P
    Someone who has a lot of acne? As long as it didn't ooze on me
    Someone who looks just like your parent? Hmm No I don't think so
    Someone who is considerably overweight? Yea, assuming they had no issues that go along with it
    Someone who is considerably underweight? See above
    Someone who is bulked up with muscle? Ditto
    Someone who was very short? Ditto
    Someone who was very tall? Ditto

    Given that a person was very attractive, could your form a romantic relationship with...

    Someone who is cheap? No
    Someone who is homophobic? No
    Someone who is racist? No
    Someone who lacks a sense of humor? No
    Someone who uses poor grammar/speech? Maybe
    Someone who cusses? Fuck yes
    Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments? Hah of course
    Someone who has had a history of mental illness? Depends
    Someone who has had a history of substance abuse? Doubtful
    Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system? Big maybe. Highly circumstantial
    Someone with opposing political beliefs? Again maybe. Depends on how much of a value it was to them and how much they spoke about it
    Someone who gossips? Who doesn't?
    Someone who has a mental disability? Depends on the severity of it
    Someone who isn't too intelligent? I sincerely doubt it
    Someone who is far more intelligent than you? Sure, not so sure it would last though
    Someone who is arrogant? Hah no one's as arrogant as me ^_^
    Someone who is a pushover? Nah I'm not fond of those kind
     
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    Someone of a different race? Yes
    Someone who was deaf? Yes, I'd have to learn sign language though
    Someone who was blind? It'd be a turn on, it'd save me a shitload of cash on blindfolds.
    Someone who was missing a limb? Uh, which one?
    Someone with a facial deformity? No
    Someone with an incurable STD? No
    Someone who is bisexual? Yes
    Someone with questionable hygiene? God no.
    Someone who smokes? Yes
    Someone with a lot of tattoos? Hypocritical to say no.
    Someone with a lot of piercings? Yup.
    Someone who is a bad dresser? Yes
    Someone who is poor? Yes
    Someone who is very rich? Eh surprisingly this would make me uncomfortable.
    Someone who is very hairy? Hairy wherey?
    Someone who has a lot of acne? No
    Someone who looks just like your parent? No
    Someone who is considerably overweight? No
    Someone who is considerably underweight? Sure
    Someone who is bulked up with muscle? Yes
    Someone who was very short? Yuppers
    Someone who was very tall? Maybe

    Given that a person was very attractive, could your form a romantic relationship with...

    Someone who is cheap? No
    Someone who is homophobic? Not my problem so sure.
    Someone who is racist? My problem so no.
    Someone who lacks a sense of humor? No.
    Someone who uses poor grammar/speech? Yes
    Someone who cusses? Yes
    Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments? No.
    Someone who has had a history of mental illness? Yes.
    Someone who has had a history of substance abuse? Yes
    Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system? That's a loaded one right there, If they're super religous I'm gonna stay away.
    Someone with opposing political beliefs? I don't give a shit enough so yes.
    Someone who gossips? Hell the fuck no.
    Someone who has a mental disability? No
    Someone who isn't too intelligent? Nah.
    Someone who is far more intelligent than you? No, it's a pride thing.
    Someone who is arrogant? Depends.
    Someone who is a pushover? No.
     
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    I guess its is my turn.

    Given that a person is a wonderful human being on the inside, could your form a romantic relationship with...

    Someone of a different race? Yes.
    Someone who was deaf? Yes. (if I learned sign language)
    Someone who was blind? Yes.
    Someone who was missing a limb? Yes. (it would take some getting used to first)
    Someone with a facial deformity? No.
    Someone with an incurable STD? Yes. (it would be very hard)
    Someone who is bisexual? Yes.
    Someone with questionable hygiene? Depends on if I could get them to clean up their act.
    Someone who smokes? No.
    Someone with a lot of tattoos? Yes.
    Someone with a lot of piercings? Yes. (with maybe the exception of a Prince Albert)
    Someone who is a bad dresser? Yes.
    Someone who is poor? Yes.
    Someone who is very rich? Yes.
    Someone who is very hairy? Yes. (if I gotta shave, then they gotta shave)
    Someone who has a lot of acne? Yes
    Someone who looks just like your parent? No.
    Someone who is considerably overweight? No. (which is too bad considering I'm a little overweight)
    Someone who is considerably underweight? No.
    Someone who is bulked up with muscle? Maybe.
    Someone who was very short? Yes.
    Someone who was very tall? Yes.

    Given that a person was very attractive, could your form a romantic relationship with...

    Someone who is cheap? Yes. (I'm cheap)
    Someone who is homophobic? Yeah! (If they are homophobic and dating me, it is bound to be loads of fun)
    Someone who is racist? Yes. (I'm a little racist)
    Someone who lacks a sense of humor? No.
    Someone who uses poor grammar/speech? No.
    Someone who cusses? Yes.
    Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments? No.
    Someone who has had a history of mental illness? Yes.
    Someone who has had a history of substance abuse? Yes.
    Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system? Yes.
    Someone with opposing political beliefs? Yes.
    Someone who gossips? Maybe.
    Someone who has a mental disability? No.
    Someone who isn't too intelligent? No.
    Someone who is far more intelligent than you? Difficult to say.
    Someone who is arrogant? To a degree. They can't be more arrogant than me.
    Someone who is a pushover? No. (I wonder why this one is so universally unattractive)
     
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    Given that a person is a wonderful human being on the inside, could your form a romantic relationship with...

    Someone of a different race? yes
    Someone who was deaf? yes
    Someone who was blind? Possibly.
    Someone who was missing a limb? no
    Someone with a facial deformity? no
    Someone with an incurable STD? no
    Someone who is bisexual? Yes
    Someone with questionable hygiene? no
    Someone who smokes? Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeees
    Someone with a lot of tattoos? Yes But wouldn't that show something about his character?
    Someone with a lot of piercings? Same as above
    Someone who is a bad dresser? yes
    Someone who is poor? yes
    Someone who is very rich? yes
    Someone who is very hairy? NO
    Someone who has a lot of acne? no
    Someone who looks just like your parent? ?? huh?
    Someone who is considerably overweight? no
    Someone who is considerably underweight? yes
    Someone who is bulked up with muscle? Yes
    Someone who was very short? Yes
    Someone who was very tall? Yes

    Given that a person was very attractive, could your form a romantic relationship with...

    Someone who is cheap? yes
    Someone who is homophobic? yes
    Someone who is racist? no
    Someone who lacks a sense of humor? yes
    Someone who uses poor grammar/speech? probably not
    Someone who cusses? Yes
    Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments? Yes
    Someone who has had a history of mental illness? Yes
    Someone who has had a history of substance abuse? No
    Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system? Yes
    Someone with opposing political beliefs? NO NO NO. I would change them. By ANY means necessary.
    Someone who gossips? Yes
    Someone who has a mental disability? no
    Someone who isn't too intelligent? yes
    Someone who is far more intelligent than you? Yes. My dream.
    Someone who is arrogant? Yes
    Someone who is a pushover?Yes
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    Someone of a different race? Of course! I am yet to date a guy of my own race
    Someone who was deaf? yup
    Someone who was blind? Oh yeah
    Someone who was missing a limb? yup
    Someone with a facial deformity? The best feature on a guy is eyes so as long as he's got at least one I'm happy
    Someone with an incurable STD? yes
    Someone who was bisexual? yes as long as they were faithful
    Someone with questionable hygiene? depends on how questionable
    Someone who smokes? nope, allergic to smoke
    Someone with a lot of tattoos? yup
    Someone with a lot of piercings? yup
    Someone who is a bad dresser? LOL yup I actually dated a guy who was a horrrible dresser. I thought it was cute.
    Someone who is poor? definitely
    Someone who is very rich? absolutely NOT
    Someone who is very hairy? yup
    Someone who has a lot of acne? yup
    Someone who looks just like your parent? no
    Someone who is considerably overweight? yup
    Someone who is considerably underweight? yeah
    Someone who is bulked up with muscle? uuuumm that's really not my type but if he was sweet then yes
    Someone who was very short? yup
    Someone who was very tall? yup

    Given that a person was very attractive, could your form a romantic relationship with...

    Someone who is cheap? NO!!! I run a non-profit and my whole life is about giving. One guy I was with was cheap, he lectured me everytime I bought shoes for an orphan. I can't have that.
    Someone who is homophobic? NEVER
    Someone who is racist? NEVER.
    Someone who lacks a sense of humor? Nope
    Someone who uses poor grammar/speech? yes, I don't care about that
    Someone who cusses? as long as it's not every other word
    Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments? Yes, that would add a little flavor in my life
    Someone who has had a history of mental illness? Oh yeah, that's not a problem at all
    Someone who has had a history of substance abuse? As long as they weren't currently using that would be fine
    Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system? sure, as long as they were accepting of my weird homemade religion
    Someone with opposing political beliefs? only if they shared the same views on peoples rights and important things like that
    Someone who gossips? no, dated a guy who gossiped and he told ALL his coworkers my deepest secrets just to have conversation
    Someone who has a mental disability? Depends on what it is. Dyslexia, no problem. Trisomy 21, wellll there'd be a problem
    Someone who isn't too intelligent? If he was kind that is all that matters
    Someone who is far more intelligent than you? Oh yeah, but they couldn't think of me as inferior because of that though
    Someone who is arrogant? never
    Someone who is a pushover? yeah
     
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    Someone of a different race? Hmmmm....maybe....probably
    Someone who was deaf? no...I talk too much, and I'm really bad at sign language
    Someone who was blind? Yes! Because then I could pick out his clothes!!! XD
    Someone who was missing a limb? If they had a prosthetic limb to replace it.
    Someone with a facial deformity? Probably not...............I feel like crap now....
    Someone with an incurable STD? If it would kill them soon, no.
    Someone who is bisexual? Probably not. But I have bi-sexual friends, and nothing against bi-sexuals!!!! :D
    Someone with questionable hygiene? Eew...no...
    Someone who smokes? Maybe.
    Someone with a lot of tattoos? Not on their face.
    Someone with a lot of piercings? Maybe.....
    Someone who is a bad dresser? Sure! (I love randomness instyle)
    Someone who is poor? Heck yeah!
    Someone who is very rich? HECK YEAH!!!!!
    Someone who is very hairy? Yeah.
    Someone who has a lot of acne? Sure!
    Someone who looks just like your parent? That would creep me out. Probably not.
    Someone who is considerably overweight? Sure
    Someone who is considerably underweight? Sure
    Someone who is bulked up with muscle? Yeah!
    Someone who was very short? I'm short, so why not?
    Someone who was very tall? Yup!

    Given that a person was very attractive, could your form a romantic relationship with...

    Someone who is cheap? Only if they had a good reason for being cheap.
    Someone who is homophobic? No. Too many gay friends.
    Someone who is racist? No.
    Someone who lacks a sense of humor? No freaking way.
    Someone who uses poor grammar/speech? Maybe. But I secretly love to correct grammar.
    Someone who cusses? Sure
    Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments? Maybe
    Someone who has had a history of mental illness? If they were nice.
    Someone who has had a history of substance abuse? Yeah.
    Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system? If it didn't have to involve me!
    Someone with opposing political beliefs? Of course!!! I love to debate!
    Someone who gossips? Yup
    Someone who has a mental disability? Hmm.....(thinks of Forrest Gump) do I die in the end????
    Someone who isn't too intelligent? I like ignorant humor, but not that much.
    Someone who is far more intelligent than you? I hate to be proved wrong..hmm....as long as they don't spew random reels of facts like, "The first sandwhich was made 10 minutes from here!"
    Someone who is arrogant? Maybe. As long as they don't try to belittle me. Cause I'll slap a hoe!
    Someone who is a pushover? Maybe???
     
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    Let's measure INFJ standards. Be honest now.

    Given that a person is a wonderful human being on the inside, could your form a romantic relationship with...

    Someone of a different race?
    - Done That.
    Someone who was deaf? - I think I would give it a try, but I doubt I or the other person would be very happy.
    Someone who was blind? - Yes
    Someone who was missing a limb? - Yes
    Someone with a facial deformity? - I don't know.
    Someone with an incurable STD? - No.
    Someone who is bisexual? - Yes
    Someone with questionable hygiene? - No.
    Someone who smokes? - It would irk me.
    Someone with a lot of tattoos? - Yes.
    Someone with a lot of piercings? - No. I find piercings multiple piercings huge turn off.
    Someone who is a bad dresser? - Yes.
    Someone who is poor? - Yes.
    Someone who is very rich? - Yes.
    Someone who is very hairy? - I don't know.
    Someone who has a lot of acne? - No.
    Someone who looks just like your parent? - I don't know.
    Someone who is considerably overweight? - Probably not, but I'd consider.
    Someone who is considerably underweight? - Probably not, but I'd consider
    Someone who is bulked up with muscle? - Yes
    Someone who was very short? - Depends.
    Someone who was very tall? - Yes

    Given that a person was very attractive, could your form a romantic relationship with...

    Someone who is cheap?
    - Depends what you mean by that.
    Someone who is homophobic? - NO
    Someone who is racist? - Absolutely not.
    Someone who lacks a sense of humor? - NO!
    Someone who uses poor grammar/speech? - It would irk me.
    Someone who cusses? - It would irk me.
    Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments? -It would irk me.
    Someone who has had a history of mental illness? - Depends
    Someone who has had a history of substance abuse? - Probably not.
    Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system? - Yes.
    Someone with opposing political beliefs? - Maybe.
    Someone who gossips? - Maybe.
    Someone who has a mental disability? - Depends
    Someone who isn't too intelligent? - No.
    Someone who is far more intelligent than you? - Yes.
    Someone who is arrogant? - Yes.
    Someone who is a pushover? - It would irk me.
     
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    Someone of a different race? Yes
    Someone who was deaf? Yes
    Someone who was blind? No
    Someone who was missing a limb? Possibly
    Someone with a facial deformity? Probably not
    Someone with an incurable STD? No
    Someone who is bisexual? Yes
    Someone with questionable hygiene? No
    Someone who smokes? Unsure, possibly
    Someone with a lot of tattoos? Yes
    Someone with a lot of piercings? Yes
    Someone who is a bad dresser? Yes
    Someone who is poor? Yes
    Someone who is very rich? Yes
    Someone who is very hairy? No
    Someone who has a lot of acne? Possibly
    Someone who looks just like your parent? Yes
    Someone who is considerably overweight? Yes
    Someone who is considerably underweight? Possibly
    Someone who is bulked up with muscle? Possibly
    Someone who was very short? Yes
    Someone who was very tall? Hell yes

    Given that a person was very attractive, could your form a romantic relationship with...

    Someone who is cheap? Yes
    Someone who is homophobic? Since I'm a lesbian I don't see how that'd work
    Someone who is racist? No
    Someone who lacks a sense of humor? Yes
    Someone who uses poor grammar/speech? Yes
    Someone who cusses? Yes
    Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments? Yes, that's kinda cute
    Someone who has had a history of mental illness? Depression? Yes. Schizophrenia, bipolar probably not. Borderline possibly depending on how manageable it is.
    Someone who has had a history of substance abuse? No
    Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system? Yes
    Someone with opposing political beliefs? Yes
    Someone who gossips? Yes
    Someone who has a mental disability? Probably not, as that would affect intelligence levels usually
    Someone who isn't too intelligent? See above, so no
    Someone who is far more intelligent than you? Sure
    Someone who is arrogant? Yes
    Someone who is a pushover? No
     
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    MindYourHead Courage doesn't always roar.

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    Given that a person is a wonderful human being on the inside, could your form a romantic relationship with...

    Someone of a different race? Yes
    Someone who was deaf? Yes (My 1st wife is deaf.)
    Someone who was blind? Yes
    Someone who was missing a limb? Yes
    Someone with a facial deformity? Unsure
    Someone with an incurable STD? No
    Someone who is bisexual? Yes
    Someone with questionable hygiene? No
    Someone who smokes? Yes
    Someone with a lot of tattoos? Yes
    Someone with a lot of piercings? Unsure
    Someone who is a bad dresser? No
    Someone who is poor? Yes
    Someone who is very rich? Yes
    Someone who is very hairy? Yes
    Someone who has a lot of acne? Yes
    Someone who looks just like your parent? Yes
    Someone who is considerably overweight? Unsure
    Someone who is considerably underweight? Unsure
    Someone who is bulked up with muscle? No
    Someone who was very short? Yes
    Someone who was very tall? Yes

    Given that a person was very attractive, could your form a romantic relationship with...


    Someone who is cheap? Yes
    Someone who is homophobic? No
    Someone who is racist? No
    Someone who lacks a sense of humor? No
    Someone who uses poor grammar/speech? Yes
    Someone who cusses? Yes
    Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments? No
    Someone who has had a history of mental illness? Yes
    Someone who has had a history of substance abuse? Yes
    Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system? Yes
    Someone with opposing political beliefs? Yes
    Someone who gossips? No
    Someone who has a mental disability? Yes
    Someone who isn't too intelligent? No
    Someone who is far more intelligent than you? Yes
    Someone who is arrogant? No
    Someone who is a pushover? No
     
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    So is anyone eventually going to make a tally of answers so we can divine some trends from this and maybe draw a conclusion? :tongue:
     
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