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How do you envision your wedding?

But seriously if I ever had to get married for the reasons I've mentioned in other threads (illegal immigrant green card, gold digging), I would just get a justice to marry us and have two witnesses. I'm not down with anything else.
 
slant said:
But seriously if I ever had to get married for the reasons I've mentioned in other threads (illegal immigrant green card, gold digging), I would just get a justice to marry us and have two witnesses. I'm not down with anything else.
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Aah thats admirable I guess, but illegal and do you know that they follow up on marriages; you can't just suddenly divorce or live like you don't know each other i.e. apart.
 
...I already had mine, hard to envision anything else. Sure I had my ideas like anyone else, but the reality wedding is now all I think about. Small, backyard wedding overseen by a judge, lost wedding ring in the grass, and the impossible champagne bottle that took 4 men to open. It was as perfect as it could have been, and the end result is still the same!
 
Pristinegirl said:
Aah thats admirable I guess, but illegal and do you know that they follow up on marriages; you can't just suddenly divorce or live like you don't know each other i.e. apart.
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I'd plan it out. There are plenty of people who do it and methods to get away with it.
 
slant said:
But seriously if I ever had to get married for the reasons I've mentioned in other threads (illegal immigrant green card, gold digging), I would just get a justice to marry us and have two witnesses. I'm not down with anything else.
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I agree with the justice route. Why spend money on the wedding when you can spend that same money on a better honeymoon of adventure or perhaps something like a new car.
 
Yeah, essentially yes.

I could be spending one or two grand on one of those survivalist hikes.
 
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It'd be thrilling to get married while skydiving. It'd have to be a very short ceremony though.

I wonder if there are rules around having to be in a certain vicinity of each other while getting married, or if it's up to the officiator.
 
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hey, that's an awesome idea
 
Soulful said:
It'd be thrilling to get married while skydiving. It'd have to be a very short ceremony though.

I wonder if there are rules around having to be in a certain vicinity of each other while getting married, or if it's up to the officiator.
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Sounds spontaneous and great. Imagine the feelings of euphoria and the adrenaline rush, that will always be associated with the wedding :D
 
When I was planning on getting married a few years ago, I remember being very bored by the whole ordeal. Looking at dresses and picking out shit for the ceremony and party was as boring as homework.

I don't like big events and ordeals. And I hate the idea of spending a lot of money on a one day ceremony. I'll probably never get married, actually. But who knows? If I were to get married, I'd want it to be as casual and simple and natural as possible. As fun and loose as possible.

It would be outdoors, a secular ceremony, and nobody has to dress up. I would learn to sew and make my own comfy dress. The day before, I want to spend cooking with my friends and family making huge amounts of food for guests.
 
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