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What struggles do you face when trying to get to know someone?

Owning and carrying those things of consequence which are not mine to carry.
 
Something which I have a hard time with is when it comes to showing people that I would like to be their friend and keep up with them. I will usually get a hunch about a person that they can be a good friend to me but when it comes to expressing to them that we should keep up I get really shy. Im not a innitiater in that way and will allow the other person to do the work. Because of this most of my friends ended up being extraverted types who openly express their feelings and thoughts. With my introverted friends it has taken a lot of effort on both of our parts to make the friendship happen.