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  1. Chackabuu

    Surrounded by??

    What MBTI typing, other than your own, are you mostly surrounded by in your daily lives? For whatever reason, I can't escape ISFP's. My mom and multiple friends have turned out to be ISFP. I appreciate how they are able to go with the flow more than myself, but they frustrate me when they don't...
  2. H

    ENTP and INFJ, don't really know what to do anymore

    We used to be so close, in fact i loved him (we are both dudes and he knows i am gay).. even though he couldn't reciprocate because he's in a relationship (with a girl), but he'd get really jealous and possessive (this doesn't happen with other friend of his) while i am with other friends, this...
  3. M

    Do you experience this?

    Hi all, I’ve noticed a trend with some of my friends and family that I’m wondering if you can relate to. Basically when people meet me they make a snap judgement about who I am based on how I’m going in my life at the time. Oftentimes in the past I haven’t been doing so well, so they may have...
  4. Fallible

    I need help breaking down the wall surrounding my soul

    It has been almost a year since I started living alone in my own apartment after having lived with my parents since I was born. I recently turned 22, working a full time job that I don’t like. The plan was to spend all of my free time working on my passion and eventually get a job in that field...
  5. RonjaRaeubertochter

    How often do you leave the house to actually meet with people in real life?

    The Infj cliche is one rather staying home. So, how often do you get out there?
  6. OliOliOxenFree

    What struggles do you face when trying to get to know someone?

    Hey Guys! Was curious as to what kind of challenges you all go through in your struggle to find a relationship or even just friends? This can be anything small or big. For me, its the fact that I absolutely detest small talk and try to do my best to connect with an individual on a personal...
  7. D

    INFJ friendship vs relationship

    Hey INFJs, I have an INFJ male friend and was wondering if there is any way to tell if he is interested in me romantically or not? Lately, he's been initiating the two of us hanging out, (for the past month or two its been once or twice a week typically, but he's not the kind of guy that has...
  8. S

    [INFJ] INFJs and Texting?

    Hello, friends. I'm very close friends with a guy who is an INFJ. We've been friends for a few years but I recently started to develop feelings for him. The trouble is, I can't figure out how he feels about me. I've thought about asking, but I don't want to make our friendship awkward. He acts...
  9. S

    INFJ Mixed Signals

    Hey everyone Lately, I've been getting a lot of mixed signals from an INFJ guy friend of mine. I thought maybe he liked me because he gets very protective over me in particular, he lightly teases me sometimes, I catch him looking at me often and then he looks away when I catch him, he often sits...
  10. Ambyguity

    [INFJ] INFJs and the Conflict Between Social Anxiety and Fe

    There have been plenty of posts about social anxiety, but I specifically want to address what I think is the main problem about being an INFJ with social anxiety. The problem is this: 1. As an Fe secondary, I need social interaction; I need to feel like I am a part of something with people...
  11. Profoundhappiness

    [INFJ] Are you likeable?? Socially accepted?? Even Popular?

    I'm curious, how likeable or "Popular" INFJ's are amongst their peers and friends and social networks. Do you have trouble spots? Can you navigate the social landscape flawlessly? Do you feel you bumble around? Are you generally yourself? Or do you filter yourself for others? Do...