grapefruit
Community Member
- MBTI
- infj
- Enneagram
- 4w3
Is it normal for an Infj to not be compatible with an Infp? There is a specific person I know who I have typed to be an Infp. One minute she is cheerful anc caring, but the next she is screaming about how no one appreciates her. People do what she wants all the time, yet she complains that no one cares about her desires. She gets mad when reprimanded for failing to fulfill an obligation, and at times she is horribly insulting, calling me overly passive, weak, parasitic, convictionless, and insisting that I only talk to her when I want something. There is no telling her that something is different from the way she believes it to be. It's important that we get along, and I am in no way saying I don't care for her. I have found it most effective to set firm boundaries, and not to fully depend on her to follow through. Have I typed her correctly? Is this a normal Infj Infp relationship?