Dear Non-INFJ's,
Please remember, although many of us are very intelligent, we always deal with things through how they affect our feelings. This may seem odd to ST types, but it works perfectly for us as it goes hand-in-hand with our intuition.
In conversation, just because we don't react does not mean we are not listening --quite the opposite usually. We are hearing and processing, we don't want to waste time with useless gestures and interuptions.
We typically feel isolated too as there are so few of us. If we make a connection, it is usually a strong one.
Thanks for listening,
A True INFJ