To echo everyone else, I only care if I care for you. And even then, I still only care a little. I guess I care only as much as I care for you. If I like you a little,I care a little. If I like you a lot, you get the idea.
For the most part it amuses me when people get the wrong idea about me. I don't know why. I think its because I find it presumptuous, and presumptuous people seem to most convinced of their own intellectual prowess. Even in the face of evidence to the contrary. And there is nothing funnier than that.
Mostly I think its funny because if you ask me a straightforward question about myself, you will get a candid, honest answer. No reason to make assumptions, I'll tell you what you want to know. Ain't no shame in my game and I'm a straight shooter.
I dare to ask; Restraint, what are your opinions/feelings on the matter?
Disclaimer: This is not an interesting response. ; )
I can't say it doesn't matter. But it has mattered more than it should. My job, my life has always centered around how others think or perceive of what i do, which i thought was more important than anything else. I believed it was a direct reflection on who i was. This came about through academic, family, or professional expectations. So, i don't think i had the luxury of not caring. It's only recently that i've come to realize that what people think about me is not as important as what i think about myself. So i've learned (still learning) how to care enough about my professional and personal credibility without caring too much or as much about how i'm perceived. Work in progress.
InsightfulDisclaimer: This is not an interesting response. ; )
I can't say it doesn't matter. But it has mattered more than it should. My job, my life has always centered around how others think or perceive of what i do, which i thought was more important than anything else. I believed it was a direct reflection on who i was. This came about through academic, family, or professional expectations. So, i don't think i had the luxury of not caring. It's only recently that i've come to realize that what people think about me is not as important as what i think about myself. So i've learned (still learning) how to care enough about my professional and personal credibility without caring too much or as much about how i'm perceived. Work in progress.
Good distinction.....professional credibility (which can be a perception) is one thing, but beyond that other perceptions may not matter much. I tend to create my own wake regardless of what people may think, but I am respected for that work-wise as a form of leadership and as a type of professional diversity. So it works professionally, but not in other ways that may be more related to office drama.care enough about my professional and personal credibility without caring too much or as much about how i'm perceived.