i don't know about 'fun' but yes, spontaneous and doing things, unexpected, unplanned for, drop-everything-you're-doing things and run like an emergency for everything else. yes, it can be very frustratingly hectic at timesIf you want fun, being spontanious and doing things, good. If you want a lot of depth and a long serious lasting relationship, not so good.
this is something I've noted with both ENFPs and ESFPs, they react emotionally to whatever is happening in the moment but they are quick to cool down as well ... INFJs in comparison build up slower and retain their emotions longerespecially when we are trying to work together or something
she has her ways and i have mine
she has more of a tendency to 'fly off the handle' than i do