- MBTI
- ENFJ
Basically he is 4 years older than me, reserved, quiet, calm, and handsome.
I am (age) and I am loud, friendly, explosive, beautifyly cute
Together we are lowkey a power team, when we are both in a good mood.
But when we are both in a bad mood, we push each other away.
When I am in a bad mood, he quietly just sits next to me while doing his own this while secretly paying attention to my reactions.
When he is in a bad mood, he hides, and i follow him, trying to cheer him up. Eventually he stops putting up a bubble and we have fun together as he cheers up.
See? Its like that.
When we are alone and we are both flirty, we tend to be magnetized towards each other and just sit in each others presence and (accidentaly make physical contact) while trying to hold it all together.
When we are alone, and im in a normal mood and he is flirty, he just lets me ignore him, while he just watches me and sometiems just amjses himself while watching me get amused minding my own buisness.
When im flirty, and hes normal, he listens to me intently, and does what i ask him, then he makes me question why im asking him to do all these things and why hes accualy listening.
When were in public, and we know we want to be alone together, we make excuses to be together, ( dog walking, babysitting, making food, watching movie,) all in a oublic setting.
When were in public, and i want to be near him, but hes like (busy/wants to be around me just not show it outwardly,) he ignores me, avoids me, and to everyone else it ,ight seem mean, but because of his body cues and facial expressions i can tell he just means (not rright now) haha.
When were in public and he wants to be near me, he makes it seem (accidental) that we keep meeting routinely at certain places and time, then when i catch up, i play along as if its a coincidence.
But i reallyyyy am very attracted to him, and he is too, but his younger brother who is ENFJ like me, is also attracted to me and my INTJ (romantic interest) doesnt like it, lol
What should i keep doing and what should i stop doing?
I am (age) and I am loud, friendly, explosive, beautifyly cute
Together we are lowkey a power team, when we are both in a good mood.
But when we are both in a bad mood, we push each other away.
When I am in a bad mood, he quietly just sits next to me while doing his own this while secretly paying attention to my reactions.
When he is in a bad mood, he hides, and i follow him, trying to cheer him up. Eventually he stops putting up a bubble and we have fun together as he cheers up.
See? Its like that.
When we are alone and we are both flirty, we tend to be magnetized towards each other and just sit in each others presence and (accidentaly make physical contact) while trying to hold it all together.
When we are alone, and im in a normal mood and he is flirty, he just lets me ignore him, while he just watches me and sometiems just amjses himself while watching me get amused minding my own buisness.
When im flirty, and hes normal, he listens to me intently, and does what i ask him, then he makes me question why im asking him to do all these things and why hes accualy listening.
When were in public, and we know we want to be alone together, we make excuses to be together, ( dog walking, babysitting, making food, watching movie,) all in a oublic setting.
When were in public, and i want to be near him, but hes like (busy/wants to be around me just not show it outwardly,) he ignores me, avoids me, and to everyone else it ,ight seem mean, but because of his body cues and facial expressions i can tell he just means (not rright now) haha.
When were in public and he wants to be near me, he makes it seem (accidental) that we keep meeting routinely at certain places and time, then when i catch up, i play along as if its a coincidence.
But i reallyyyy am very attracted to him, and he is too, but his younger brother who is ENFJ like me, is also attracted to me and my INTJ (romantic interest) doesnt like it, lol
What should i keep doing and what should i stop doing?