What does an INFJ want?
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I believe that INFJs want a safe place to belong where their feelings are validated and their are not judged cruelly. I believe that sensitivity and constructive critisism is something that the collective INFJ mind would seek, and I believe that we should build this foundation here, at these forums, once more.
Treat others kindly.
Think about what you say or do and how you post advice to others.
Avoid passing judgement when possible.
Spread love and accept it.
These are a few general suggestions to keep in the grasp of your mind. It will surely help.
Treat others kindly.
Think about what you say or do and how you post advice to others.
Avoid passing judgement when possible.
Spread love and accept it.
These are a few general suggestions to keep in the grasp of your mind. It will surely help.
Or alternatively - watching someone prosaic and emotionally discordant become transformed into a romantic antithesis of their former self while said person remains harmonious with who they uniquely and essentially are?
Which sort of amounts to making the world a better place one heart at a time.
Which sort of amounts to making the world a better place one heart at a time.
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It seems, to a large degree, people's wants are strongly influenced by their experiences in life in addition to being an INFJ. Having been sidelined or taunted or isolated all throughout my developing years in school by the other kids (and kids can be cruel to what they don't understand (well, they can be cruel anyways)), my biggest want simply is acceptance and people I like to seek me out for attention once in a damn while. The lack of this is very draining, and then others get something additional to shy away from.
Beyond this, I want humanity to shape up and take responsibility for itself... oh, and I want a cabin with a view on an underpopulated paradise planet circling around Tau Ceti, if anyone can arrange that for me, please. You know, nothing special.
In a mate, I'm looking for someone with enough self confidence not to hang off my moods, do their own talented thing (that I appreciate, like writing or artistry or saving the world, you know), and yet has that intrapersonal warmth I tend to associate with introverts (as opposed to dispersed friendliness I associate with extros). Hmm.. I sound like a girl.
Beyond this, I want humanity to shape up and take responsibility for itself... oh, and I want a cabin with a view on an underpopulated paradise planet circling around Tau Ceti, if anyone can arrange that for me, please. You know, nothing special.
In a mate, I'm looking for someone with enough self confidence not to hang off my moods, do their own talented thing (that I appreciate, like writing or artistry or saving the world, you know), and yet has that intrapersonal warmth I tend to associate with introverts (as opposed to dispersed friendliness I associate with extros). Hmm.. I sound like a girl.
yeah like me
and my other INFJ friend
because sometimes being too good gets tiring
Heres your new avatar lol.
I dont recall a charity being discussed at any time during his hour long rant. I think you are remembering things wrong and taking him being possibly underdeveloped personally.
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I want to finally master something. Tired of being jack of all trades
I resemble that remark
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I was going to say to build something to change the world for the better but I will settle for that.
Usually once an INFJ becomes irrational, their subjective experience of their irrationality is lacking, unlike some other types. Thank you Ti for always being right.... except not really.
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