Turns offs:
Someone who (is): dishonest, paranoid, generally distrusting in the relationship, judgmental, shallow, assumptious, cynical, emotionally cold, prone to angry outbursts, yells, violent, mean, lacks integrity, selfish, obnoxious, dominates conversations, uncommunicative, unmotivated or lazy, personally competitive, needs validation, overly cautious and playing it safe most of the time, controlling, unconstructively critical of others, believes the world's going to hell in a handbasket, uptight, unable to be spontaneous (I tend to feel more relaxed around Ps vs. Js), rigid, unable to relax and let things go, holds grudges, argumentative, blames others and holds them responsible for their lack of success in the world, lack of self-awareness, poor communication especially if reflective of a lack of self-awareness, disrespectful, punitive, immature, close-minded, smug... I could keep going but I think this is beyond long enough.