This is all very vague and hyperbolic. If relationship management is "huge" in your life, you're doing relationships wrong.
I think you’ve missed my point and don’t understand what I meant
This is all very vague and hyperbolic. If relationship management is "huge" in your life, you're doing relationships wrong.
I also know I’ve reversed the doorslam before so let’s not act like all doorslams are equal and some can be reconsidered. But now you’re saying that’s being disrespectful. But if I didn’t re-engage it would have never been re-opened
I think you’ve missed my point and don’t understand what I meant
If everything is on your terms, and people just respect it without compromise, then it goes back to my original point of the slam being one-sided
That's good you agree...you said itI agree with this. Guys, I’m on an MBTI site for the love of god trying to learn about people
Usually is the key word. And usually is subjective and how one person interprets it
Tell me my point
I loved my ex for 20 years and just last week I told her she was ugly and I meant it... Immature? Yes, and I don't care...They loved me and missed me
The fact still remains that you don't like when another person has agency of their own. In essence, you are a control freak but you deny it as a possibility because you espouse freedom for all.
They chose to leave you, you can't do anything about it. That drives you mad. It should.
If you've been so irritating and annoying and pervasive as to cause somebody to revert their doorslam, you've behaved in a way that is quite frankly disturbingly stalker like.
I’m totally cool with whatever the decision is, though
I loved my ex for 20 years and just last week I told her she was ugly and I meant it... Immature? Yes, and I don't care...
Sure. What I'm saying is, perhaps this other person feels different now about you than they didGood for you. I wouldn’t go that far with anyone, but do what you need to
No. I went from love to not giving a crap about her feelings or well being. I'm saying it's possible that has happened to you and you should not approach, because clearly this person isn't interested at the moment.Which would suggest to approach them, right
Using the same logic
The doorslam is the end... Unless as has been noted, the door slammer is unhealthy, immature etc.because it’s going to be a giant pain in the ass and you are going to create an imbalanced relationship