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    22 January, mah dude.
     
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    Swimming for a first date is a good idea. Makes me wonder if I've been coming on too strong suggesting we meet at the local nudist beach...
     
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    Thanks for your Input.
     
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    So how many rejections you are willing to a cept ?
     
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    I don't accept rejection. That's why I set myself on fire. Kinda breaks down the barrier of rejection... In theory. Hasn't really worked that way in practice. But I have some sweet scars...
     
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    Yes, absolutely agree
     
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    That's of course the most likely possibility.
     
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    Too much, it seems.
     
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    She told me, she's an INFJ. So it's a matter of believing it or mit...
     
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    Try not to evaluate her actions for her mbti and just try again. Be clear. Be concise. Be simple. Be cool. Don't put too much pressure and work on your timing.

    If she is INFJ, casually be familiar with her causes or her likes. Stuff like this require some unforeseeable setplay. I'm sensing she already knows you like her so it's just a matter of showing her that you're likeable too. Or that at the most fundamental level, that she can be comfortable with you. Don't live too long in comfort though because that's a recipe for the friend zone.
     
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    Dick pic.
     
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    No, don't do that. Not even a heart pic.
     
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    Thanks for your thoughtful feedback. Yeah she knows. So I guess I will back off for a while, to make sure there is some Kind of interest from her Side as well...Will BE hard though, but I certainly won't give up too fast
     
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    A good INTP friend of mind once told me to confess before you're in too deep. That way the moving on and recuperation is manageable. Maybe it does work because now he's married with a kid.

    You'll be fine, kid. Don't worry about it.
     
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    Worst suggestion ever lmao

    Also, what if a man has a baby D?
     
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    I'm especially wary of INFJ Scorpios like @Wyote

    Those folk are up to no good
     
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    I'm a Scorpio too. I had a client whose mom was into astrology and she asked me what my sign was after she was talking about her child's sign in a meeting. I told her thinking it was not a big deal just a bit of fun chit chat. She didn't react well. And said something like "Oh no. Scorpios are dark. Y'all have some issues!" It was a really awkward moment and now I feel discriminated against lol.
     
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    That woman was right, Scorpios are dark af

    In fact darkness itself is bright as a sun compared to the average perambulating Scorpio

    I'm messing with you of course lol
     
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