- Nov 12, 2008
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This is something that I have been aware of about me for a while now, but it just came to the surface again (i.e. randomly remembered it).
I have a pretty adversal reaction to physical contact. With my mom, or very close friends, I will usually not go beyond a hug or something to that respect. When I am hugged by them though, it is conforting. However, with other people, I have a strong reaction to it. It usually leaves me feeling embaressed, akward, or just plain unconfortable. For example, if people are playing a game or something and it requires everyone to hold hands in a circle, it will really bother me. This is also one (along with several others) reason why I hate crowded elevators, because you have to brush up agients someone. And of someone reaches out to touch me or something, I usually back away. And no, I wasn't harmed in any way as a child (people seem to think this is a cause to it).
I wonder if this has to do with my very low Si and Se, or if it is something else. Does anyone else feel this way?
I have a pretty adversal reaction to physical contact. With my mom, or very close friends, I will usually not go beyond a hug or something to that respect. When I am hugged by them though, it is conforting. However, with other people, I have a strong reaction to it. It usually leaves me feeling embaressed, akward, or just plain unconfortable. For example, if people are playing a game or something and it requires everyone to hold hands in a circle, it will really bother me. This is also one (along with several others) reason why I hate crowded elevators, because you have to brush up agients someone. And of someone reaches out to touch me or something, I usually back away. And no, I wasn't harmed in any way as a child (people seem to think this is a cause to it).
I wonder if this has to do with my very low Si and Se, or if it is something else. Does anyone else feel this way?