INFJ and a calming effect?

[corvidae]

Strange, I always thought ISFPs were the calming ones. They give me a chance to rest my Ni and use my Se. Most of my close friends are SF.

 

[IndigoSensor]

ISFP's are calming. The second they get in active mode though, they are very energizing and exciting (one of my best friends is ISFP).

 

[gloomy-optimist]

Apparently, I don't have a calming effect. My ENTJ sister says, "You have an irritating effect on people."

I was like, "D8>"

 

[Blind Bandit]

Apparently, I don't have a calming effect. My ENTJ sister says, "You have an irritating effect on people."

I was like, "D8>"

Well she is your sis. And a TJ so I could you guys butting heads once an a while.

 

[gloomy-optimist]

I think that's it. And I'm kind of annoying on purpose sometimes because it gets REALLY boring doing homework all of the time. I don't think that applies to the general public (or at least I hope not :B)

 

[Ketsugi]

I often have needy people clinging to me because of my calming effect. Everyone I become friends with tells me they are in love with me. I'm not arrogant enough to think I am irresistible or anything like that... they all say the same thing; that I make them feel calm and accepted. I get the nice eyes comment all the time. I don't like this though because people tend to rely on me instead of solving their own problems and suddenly I become a demon when they figure that out. It drains my energy and makes me physically ill.

So end the end, everything becomes my fault in their eyes.

And people wonder why I don't want be more open to everyone...

 

[Ketsugi]

This has been bothering me for awhile and making me very depressed so I want to just say it here:

Everyone always wants me to save them, but when will someone save me?

 

[midnightmelody]

Often times I get the "you made me feel a lot better", thing, though. I love hearing that! Sometimes I'm not sure if my advice is helping, so it's nice to know.