- MBTI
- infj
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I was laying in bed with the girl I have been seeing last night, well we have been seeing each other pretty consistently for a month or two but nothing is official although we have had sex a bunch of times...
anyway when she is not around I tend to just focus on my life and I dont think of her much, there are things about her I love an things about her I dislike.
But when she is here with me I am "taken in" by her and I cant help myself. Last night we were laying in bed kissing and stuff as I said and it was VERY emotional all of a sudden for me, I think I was picking up on her state and I had an overwhelming urge to tell her that I loved her. I didn't because I felt deep down that I might not, but when she was kissing me and stuff I wanted to say it, and I felt like I was really in love with her, but I couldn't tell if it was authentic or just me responding to her. I know that she is seriously into me, but I dont think I feel the same. (YET) It takes a long time for me to fall in love with someone and a long time to fall out of love with someone.
Anyway...
I wanted to know if other Ni/Fe types had a similar thing going on in thier noggins when they are in that kind of a situation.
My last girlfriend I told I loved her when I didnt, on the premise that I felt I would love her down the road if we were together long enough, but at the time it was the same exact thing. I feel the emotions of those around me, but its like I have no genuine feelings of my own up front, it takes a long time for them to develop.
anyway when she is not around I tend to just focus on my life and I dont think of her much, there are things about her I love an things about her I dislike.
But when she is here with me I am "taken in" by her and I cant help myself. Last night we were laying in bed kissing and stuff as I said and it was VERY emotional all of a sudden for me, I think I was picking up on her state and I had an overwhelming urge to tell her that I loved her. I didn't because I felt deep down that I might not, but when she was kissing me and stuff I wanted to say it, and I felt like I was really in love with her, but I couldn't tell if it was authentic or just me responding to her. I know that she is seriously into me, but I dont think I feel the same. (YET) It takes a long time for me to fall in love with someone and a long time to fall out of love with someone.
Anyway...
I wanted to know if other Ni/Fe types had a similar thing going on in thier noggins when they are in that kind of a situation.
My last girlfriend I told I loved her when I didnt, on the premise that I felt I would love her down the road if we were together long enough, but at the time it was the same exact thing. I feel the emotions of those around me, but its like I have no genuine feelings of my own up front, it takes a long time for them to develop.