I have been told all of these things by people at one time or another, the stupid part mostly by myself in the form of a thought. lol. Does this mean I am nearly every type
For me I sometimes hate being INFJ , especially when I face problems communicating with other people or facing real-life problems like some practical issue as fixing my car e.g.
But when I enjoy the special powers of an INFJ like relating deeply to one close friend I feel like the king of the world.
If they're anything to mirror me, they will be shy, but not stupid, just cafefull in whom they choose to speak, they will be independant, but not devoid of human contact, just fusy with whom thye wish to keep company. They will be opinionated, but not to the point of not enjoying anothers point of veiw.