[INFJ] Friends or something more?
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I literally replied to everything and you haven't responded. And no as the matter of fact, we're not boning.
Happy new year everyone! (6 hours to go)
This will sound bad, but I refuse being friends with women after dating or trying to date because:
(A) I’m looking to date
(B) It’s impractical. I don’t have time for it
(C) It’s an unnecessary complication. I don’t want to bring drama into another relationship or act like we’re friends because we might text or email like twice a year. That ain’t friendship
(D) This may be controversial, but it gives a person a potential out and still not lose you
(E) It’s always an imbalanced relationship for me. Like, my social needs on a scale from 0-100 are like a 9
(A) I’m looking to date
(B) It’s impractical. I don’t have time for it
(C) It’s an unnecessary complication. I don’t want to bring drama into another relationship or act like we’re friends because we might text or email like twice a year. That ain’t friendship
(D) This may be controversial, but it gives a person a potential out and still not lose you
(E) It’s always an imbalanced relationship for me. Like, my social needs on a scale from 0-100 are like a 9
Wait a minute my beloved monkeys. This could complicate the situation to a fuck buddy thing. If it should happen, enjoy it. Then see if progresses?
These are good tips. Lol. Pun intended.Oh good plan!
Though I prefer a whisper in the ear of 'I want you inside me'. Goosebumps instant erection!
Did I say I was consistent, love!?
Either would be fine... Maybe I wasn't paying attention before
This may have been situational. Perhaps the respective scales of your actions may have been projected disproportionately. I believe the general goal should be to let your interest be known, and that is to confess or to act overtly sexual with only him. However the advise to confess doesn't immediately mean to text him you love him. Just be out there and make sure he understands what you want.
Things take time so patience is key here. If he doesn't respond by text to go out now, you can "drop by" at whim or you can ask him again at a later time.
If however he doesn't respond to any of it, Hos is right to not keep texting. He may or may not see you as only a friend but it is apparent that he has decided pursuing you is not his game for now. In which case, you must be prepared to accept it.
Aish. You're on the roll.
@Professor Snep it is in my understanding that you are some sort of flirting police. Does that cover above behavior?
That's my plan.. to wait and see if he texts me, if he doesn't i might ask him out again later, if it won't work again I'm moving on.
He didn't even like my last insta pic.. what a douchebag
That's my plan.. to wait and see if he texts me, if he doesn't i might ask him out again later, if it won't work again I'm moving on.
He didn't even like my last insta pic.. what a douchebag
meanwhile he's on some other forum asking the same questions like a bitch
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You've been hanging out with your mum for too long.Exactly! Now you're getting it!
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