Well.. it may sound silly and childish, but I have some real issues dealing with the opposite sex.
If I like someone, I avoid talking to them like the plague, because I think that if I do they won't like me. I have no self confidence so I don't see why anyone would like me in return.
There was an incident at badminton club that I go to, where I really liked this guy but I couldn't talk to or go near him, As soon as my friend brought him over, my brain shut down and I couldn't even bear to look at him, and resorted to staring at my feet. I managed 3 words, which were "Hi.." "Yeah.." and "Bye..". I felt actually pysically sick, and my face was so red that it matched my jacket.
I really don't know what to do, or how to deal with it. I had one guy tell me he liked me (i've known him for a while), and I couldn't believe him. Does this happen with with anyone else or am I just a bit of a freak of nature?
Edit: Also.. I have a similar problem with dealing with new people..
If I like someone, I avoid talking to them like the plague, because I think that if I do they won't like me. I have no self confidence so I don't see why anyone would like me in return.
There was an incident at badminton club that I go to, where I really liked this guy but I couldn't talk to or go near him, As soon as my friend brought him over, my brain shut down and I couldn't even bear to look at him, and resorted to staring at my feet. I managed 3 words, which were "Hi.." "Yeah.." and "Bye..". I felt actually pysically sick, and my face was so red that it matched my jacket.
I really don't know what to do, or how to deal with it. I had one guy tell me he liked me (i've known him for a while), and I couldn't believe him. Does this happen with with anyone else or am I just a bit of a freak of nature?
Edit: Also.. I have a similar problem with dealing with new people..