Where do i find infj girls to date?
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Just wait 'til I start my dating/hooking-up website! Working title: www.gettingsomeofthatinfjonyourstrange.com. Worried that the title is too short ...
If you can't wait for my made-up website idea to come to fruition, I'd suggest that you pursue the interests that you have and bond with a fancy gal that is into the same things. If those interests line up with that of a beautiful, smart and witty INFJ girl, I say go for it. Don't go to universities and sign up for stuff you aren't into just to meet an INFJ. Sign up if you want to take the courses. INFJ's are everywhere. Sitting at home won't bring them closer to your male member. Happy huntin'!
If you can't wait for my made-up website idea to come to fruition, I'd suggest that you pursue the interests that you have and bond with a fancy gal that is into the same things. If those interests line up with that of a beautiful, smart and witty INFJ girl, I say go for it. Don't go to universities and sign up for stuff you aren't into just to meet an INFJ. Sign up if you want to take the courses. INFJ's are everywhere. Sitting at home won't bring them closer to your male member. Happy huntin'!
For the record, I think that dating based on type, or taking type as a serious consideration with dating is a bad idea. While sure, it provides a general idea of a personality, there's the potential to limit.
Perhaps I'm just being semantical though.
Instead of
/high_horse
Perhaps I'm just being semantical though.
Instead of
something like
/high_horse
I'm a guy but I hardly think that gender affects my hobbies and interests or where you'd find me (unless its a bathroom.)
Anyways, I've found maybe 2-3 INFJs in my university's art clubs - they're usually the ones who have the most to say about their art and love discussing the meaning behind their pieces if you are open minded and willing to listen.
Also, INFJs aren't necessarily relegated to being these liberal arts/psychology focused people that seems to be propagated on a lot of these forums. You can also find us in science, medical, or even finance.
Anyways, I've found maybe 2-3 INFJs in my university's art clubs - they're usually the ones who have the most to say about their art and love discussing the meaning behind their pieces if you are open minded and willing to listen.
Also, INFJs aren't necessarily relegated to being these liberal arts/psychology focused people that seems to be propagated on a lot of these forums. You can also find us in science, medical, or even finance.
[MENTION=2240]rawr[/MENTION],
I fully agree! My perspective is the XYZs I'm looking for are often inherent traits of INFJs.
I don't pretend any INFJ will do it for me. I've dated two. Fell in love with one. Was with her for 3 years... Unfortunately she's inherently polyamorous and I'm not. The most recent one was broken and there was nothing I could do about it. We lasted 2 months.
I fully agree! My perspective is the XYZs I'm looking for are often inherent traits of INFJs.
I don't pretend any INFJ will do it for me. I've dated two. Fell in love with one. Was with her for 3 years... Unfortunately she's inherently polyamorous and I'm not. The most recent one was broken and there was nothing I could do about it. We lasted 2 months.
Shaqie
The Grandmaster in Disguise
I hate you...because you're right....
Everyone hates me, because I am right.
It is a curse I carry with pride.
That means they are needy.The real question is - do you really want to date INFJ girl???
We comewith really complex handbook
i work with an infp gal.. sigh shes so cool and classy. like jane eyre but not. oh right, infj, yeah couldn't tell ya.
Im pretty good at typing people. If i find an infj, i will know. Today i typed an istp solely from his brother describing him to me (i had never met the istp) but just by his description i decided istp, when i met him, i came to the conclusion half an hour later that he was, without a doubt, istp. I was so proud
Ps I'm drunk. So anything offensive is not my fault. I dnt think anything in there is offensive but u never know
Wow it is impressive you can still type. No drunk dialing people with the webcam now mmkay. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W_KRkjBdFuk
That sounds exactly like an INTP woman. "Here darling something emotional for you to play with", then goes back to thinking about something else with occasional outbursts "dat bitch omg ARGGGHH!!!" followed up with cutesy smiles and hellos. They are nothing but trouble! Always fighting over remote and stealing each others books. Ladies first my ass you'll get it when I'm done!
Im pretty good at typing people. If i find an infj, i will know. Today i typed an istp solely from his brother describing him to me (i had never met the istp) but just by his description i decided istp, when i met him, i came to the conclusion half an hour later that he was, without a doubt, istp. I was so proud
Ps I'm drunk. So anything offensive is not my fault. I dnt think anything in there is offensive but u never know
So you typed the person by description, met the person and confirmed your answer... and that proves you were right? Do you science bro?
You have some heated feelings there. I will address it as best I can.
"everyone judging me": This is the first evidence I have seen of dislike, inconclusive evidence thus far. My genuine opinion is that you are too quick to anger and prone to prejudices.
"we all think we are better than you": well it's about time this feeling got targeted at me, it's interesting to be the target of this feeling, I'd be curious to hear the justifications for this feeling from those experiencing it. Lord knows I've done plenty of "thinking I'm better than people" in my time.
"we all think you are ... objectifying...": I think I have been misinterpreted here but I can understand how people could have gathered this opinion of me. I am simply worn down from failed dating attempts with people whom I can't stay interested in. INFJ females seem like the next place to look for a partner that I can actually respect and perhaps even learn from. I don't see that this is wrong.
"last night we talked about you for 20 mins" I don't know if I believe I had this much of an impact on people for them to care about me enough to talk about me. If this did happen, I would love to hear all about what was said. How do you expect me to be a conform to your expectations if you bitch behind my back but won't tell me what it is that is bothering you about me? (in detail)
"we all concluded that you should leave": You not liking me has nothing to do with my prerogative to be here. I'm happy to hear out your qualms but, whilst I have not intentionally attacked anyone in the way you just did nor intentionally done anything unbecoming of a decent person, I will not leave on your terms. I will leave on my own terms should I decide I no longer desire to be here.
I hate trolls. Counter-productive, waste of my input.
But what makes you so all-knowing that you know it was a troll?
But what makes you so all-knowing that you know it was a troll?