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What personality trait in people raises a red flag with you?

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    @acd – I think we could. The cashier story is so creepy. You 'just knew'. Plus, you were with your child and had that extra mothering instinct.

    I don't question my intuition, which could be the difference. I trust it and go with it.

    For example, when my ex introduced me to someone I knew instantly that the person was a murderer (that he either had murdered someone or would). I was not wrong.
    Another time I snubbed someone who was new in town. I told people he was shady and avoided him. People called me a snob. A few weeks later he raped an acquaintance and skipped town.
    I usually have intuition about 'bad' people, but there have been times when I 'knew' someone was harmless and I was helpful with them when others snubbed them, or I felt an overwhelming balance and peace within someone that was not fake or part of a creepy act. People like that are a gift.
     
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    @Asa
    I do still follow my gut as baffling as it may be sometimes. Everytime I get those big feelings they are right. It's either feeling what is not seen or said. Or just feeling danger that is not seen and knowing to gtfo. Maybe the way animals seem to know when a bad storm is coming.

    But I did not go back to that store with my son and not even by myself until I saw him in the paper and knew he was gone. I did not know exactly what was wrong with him. I couldn't pin point it like you are able to do. I just felt something was very wrong. I didn't think he was a pedophile while he rang us up, though.

    Can you elaborate on what it was that told you the one man was a murderer? Does anything stand out now? Or was it just like a lightning bolt of knowing?
     
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    You have strong intuition and I think you could learn to pinpoint it by reading what you are feeling. The only problem, at least for me, is that intuition doesn't work on command, so if you aren't feeling the 'why' with the danger you can't force it.

    I felt a shock of danger and an overwhelming, eerie feeling that he either had or would take someone's life. I knew the second I looked at him.
    It's so strange that something can be so obvious to one person, via intuition, and others don't see it at all.
    Though we shared friends, he and I were not on speaking terms (for obvious reasons) when he did it. I did warn my friend/his ex to stay away from him, but it wasn't enough.

    I'll PM you the info if you want, but it was a well-known case, so I'd rather not post it.
     
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    Sure let's PM!
     
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    • Primitive: These people are simple. They don't think much but feel a lot and act upon their emotions. They have an unhealthy ego therefore they are easy to get upset even because of a word and they constantly need ego masturbation which they sate by proving their superiority over others. They are close-minded and smartass. They mix-up subjective opinions with facts. They overestimate themselves but underestimate others. They make a fuzz over trivial matters. They act without thinking. They prefer to physically attack over trivial matters instead of a peaceful solution but when they can't attack physically; they prefer to attack with ad hominems, straw man fallacy, etc. and even any punishment method they can apply. They are usually unable to help themselves. They follow biological programming therefore they do what majority do, what majority agrees is what they agree, they care about being in a group and being a valuable member of a particular group, they care about belonging to a particular territory they call home, they mark their territory, they care about superiority in any way, they show off, they care about sex, making babies, having a partner, building a family, et cetera, they think life is a gift, they are religious therefore superstitious, they fall in pseudo-love which is pure lust just because of sex appeal, etc. BS.

    • Pervert: Those people have an extreme interest in sex and pornography therefore they like to talk about anything related to sex, their avatar choice is because of sex appeal, the character they create in video games is a sex object for them, they tend to use pornographic themes for decorations, et cetera.

    • Coward.

    • Unable to keep promises.
     
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    @Asa @acd Cool discussion.

    I tend to see that kind of intuition as a very feminine thing, or at least more pronounced in women, although I experience these inexplicable gut reactions, too.

    In fact, a couple of days ago I couldn't sign into YouTube on my PS4 and ended up with all the default recommendations - one of the videos was from a hunting channel and for no reason whatsoever I mistrusted the host massively. I felt like he had 'murdery' vibes. Maybe you guys can see what I mean...
     
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    This bloke:


    Maximal creep factor for me. Seems highly inauthentic, like a passing sociopath. Seems dangerous, &c.

    What do you think?
     
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    I'm not a fan of hunting so the gleeful giddiness about killing iguanas is what does it for me. Someone posted a thread featuring Teal Swan awhile ago. That's one YouTuber who I had never heard of before, but after watching one video, was convinced she was like a cult leader. She's very creepy.

    LMAO!
     
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    Agreed.

     
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    i like some of her videos
     
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    lol

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    There are many negative traits I find alarming, but when I notice these, they make me want to immediately walk away from those people because I cannot trust them:
    1. Narrow-mindedness, especially when joined with inauthenticity and conformity to herd mentality thinking
    2. Lack of integrity
    3. Hypocrisy and manipulative behaviours (dishonesty and deceitfulness, too - everything that makes for "Machiavellian" trait)
     
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    hmmm... kinda reminds me of (i dunno maybe...)

    trump.jpeg
     
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    She sounds like an INFJ...lol... can understand feeling like an alien in a human body. But 170 IQ, come on!
    Honestly, and I need to look into her more...but from the descriptions, she reminds me a bit of Emanuel Swedenborg. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emanuel_Swedenborg

    I've read a great deal into him, including his Astral projections.
    I'll just put it briefly here, but that stuff is real. 100%
    I've done it 3 times. 2x in 2006 and the last time in 2011. I stopped attempting it because 1) It just felt wrong. Like you are entering a funeral you are not invited to. and 2) In 2011, I had an encounter with this scaly thing in the corner of the room. It terrified the living crap out of me. And so...never done it again.

    Anyway, I wouldn't doubt all of her claims. She sounds highly, highly intuitive (and a bit of a narcissist, but maybe the healthy kind. I don't know)
     
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    I can't be arsed with this bullshit today.

    Sorry, man, lol.
     
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    Fuck you! Astral Projection is not bullshit! [and I mean that nicely]
     
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    :tearsofjoy: [I know, man, all in fun]

    Today... I do not want to hear any woo-woo. I'm done with that bullshit for at least another ten years.
     
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    I hear ya, man .... lol!
     
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