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What are your personality turn off's?

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    What are your personality turn off's?

    :m155: heh
     
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    Boring. I am rather quiet, and need an outgoing or full-of-life person to balance me out.
    Thoughtless. I can't stand it when people do things that seem so rude and self-centered, and then wonder why it is your upset. Erggg.
    Flat out mean. Some people say the most rude/hurtful things without a second thought. I think this could tie in with arrogance.
     
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    A lot of my own. :)
     
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    Irrationality.
     
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    *ribs*

    I also don't like it when people are too vague :p
     
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    Lack of empathy.
     
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    Inflexibility. Someone who knows they are right and will absolutely not listen to reason.
     
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    poor social/emotional listening skills
    - When to simply listen, show support, or offer advice
    - Being aware when they should listen and understand v. when they should speak
     
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    When people don't have any dignity, who allow themselves to be pushed around and stepped on.
     
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    Cruelty, selfishness, lack of compassion, lack of affection, aggressiveness, lack of assertiveness.
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    I'll stick to three for now:

    * Arrogance :m155:

    * Selfishness :m171:

    * Cruelty :m072:
     
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    Traits that I can't stand~
    Arrogance, over-aggression, two-faced, distant/cold.

    Traits that annoy me~
    Un-affectionate, timid and quiet (since I am myself), never taking anything seriously.
     
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    1. Dependent/dogmatic thinking
    2. Uncreative
    3. Militant
    4. Demanding the following of their perceived social hierarchy
    5. Uneducated in the Aristotilian sense (can't entertain an idea he/she does not share)
    6. Aggressive/controlling of people when not combined with good reason for such (think ESTJ)
    7. Abhoring and fearing the unpredicted/uncontrolled/unknown
    8. Inability to disseminate good information from bad information (aka: people who watch Fox News and think they're getting actual information)
    9. Boring: wants to talk about insignificant crap
    Honestly, I'm pretty tolerant of these things anymore. I don't hate or loath people with these traits, I just tend to avoid them and ignore them when I can.
     
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    cruelty.
    controlling.
    stupidity.
    ignorance.
    bad breath.
     
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    Agree, especially controlling.
     
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    Arrogance
    Selfish
    Uncreative
    Controlling
    Stupidity
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    Can never stop talking
     
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    :m131:fakeness, gives me a bad feeling insi
    :m033:emotional manipulators, I'm the defender of the suppressed
    :m129:people who can't stop talking about themselfs and never listen to me, grrrr it is boring and exhausting at the same time
    timidity, but that is because I recognize a part of myself

    but the list is long :becky:
     
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