As an INFJ, would you say that the more you know about a person the less you like them?
As an INFJ, would you say that the more you know about a person the less you like them?
Are you asking for the perspective of a cynic or an optimist?
For me, it always depends on the person... and I'll let you guess as to which of those I am.
As an INFJ, would you say that the more you know about a person the less you like them?
It depends on what I learn about them, where my focus is, and ultimately depends on my tolerance and acceptance of their right to be themselves. I prefer people that I can relate to on a deep level. This is an ideal, and holding it limits my acceptance of certain traits in people, so that the less they look like my ideal, the less I like them.
I've done this once on a person..and I'm worried if my *ideas* don't end up the truth in the end...Sometimes I like a person less after a while. Although I think it is because I romanticize them so much in my fantasy that they prove be something other than what I painted them to be. However I may come to like them more afterwards, so even though they are different from the expected, they may be even better!!
Sometimes I like a person less after a while. Although I think it is because I romanticize them so much in my fantasy that they prove be something other than what I painted them to be. However I may come to like them more afterwards, so even though they are different from the expected, they may be even better!!
The more I know about a person the more quickly I tire of them.
The more I know about a person, the more I understand the cause and effects in their life that produced the result of who they are. When I can see that, it reminds me how much I might be like them had I been exposed to their same influences. In this way i feel more of a connection which can be associated with a feeling of liking them. If I admire the person it gives me hope, and if I fear the person it gives me patience.As an INFJ, would you say that the more you know about a person the less you like them?