Romance has always made me feel somewhat uncomfortable. It just seems like such a heterosexual thing. Somehow the aesthetics just don't seem to work with two guys. After all, it's courtship behavior that has long held that underlying image of the strong man seeking the heart of the fair damsel. Gay guys don't have that kind of tradition, so it can be pretty awkard. Mostly when gay guys do "romancy" stuff, it almost always has more of a sexual edge to it.
So, for better or for worse, the most romantic stuff I've been involved with is usually flirting or teasing. I'm not complaining since it's a lot of fun, but I'm a little jealous of all the flowers, candies, gifts, dinners, etc. formula that heterosexual couples tend to have whereas homosexual couples get scoffed at for just holding hands or kissing in public. In my wildest dreams I wish I could do all those wonderful things that heterosexual couples do without any apprehension or feeling judged, but I was cursed with Fe and care a little too much about what others think.