Well, I know that many pro life people can be dogmatic and foolish like that. I definately don't look down upon those who choose to have an abortion as much as other. It's more of a pity type thing. Pity that they felt desperate or whatever it was, because desperation isn't always the case.
I respect people's choices but mothers do not kill their children once out of the womb, so I don't think that inside the womb should be different. I feel as though the fact that baby hasn't been born does not negate the fact that the baby is alive.
I'm pretty moderate on these issues.
In fact, on the issue of abortion, I feel it's most important to prevent these unwanted pregnancies in the first place.