most of you here have husbands and wife.. so I'm thinking that maybe some could answer this..... how did you all sustain your relationship? I mean I feel really really really bad about these stuff... because maybe my family is miserable.... my uncles' and aunts' families are broken I am affected by it REALLY...see people cheating on each other... seeing people regretting their marriage... seeing people lose interest in their partner....seeing people feel hurt how were you all able to decide that you will marry that person? of course you're aware that you will be committed to that person ONLY well... I just wanted to ask this because I just want to know if people can really sustain their love and respect for each other can one really stay committed to the other? <--- I really feel hopeless about this these days....... if they can stay committed to the other.. what if it's not forever?