Altruistic Muse
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- MBTI
- INFJ
- Enneagram
- 4?
Ok, I'm kind of in the middle of an argument with my aunt. I have noticed that i am fine arguing with my immediate family (although prolonged instances will make me really tired and I usually end up crying) but with anyone at all further afield I avoid it like the plague! This silly argument with my aunt (involving a series of misunderstandings basically) has left me feeling really sad and exhausted. What is really silly is the fact that actually, I haven't even had the argument, my mum rang up on my behalf and told her she was in the wrong and kind of had the row between them. My mum is ISTJ, and even though I cannot get on with her most of the time, she is wonderfully solid and perfectly controlled at times like these. It's comforting
. The whole row was also based around me being terrible at saying no when I can't do something as well. Is this a common INFJ thing? I always say yes or don't give an answer at all, because I try to keep everyone happy and in actuality everyone ends up pissed off. Anyway rant over. Conflict is the worst 

