It's taken me a long time to realize this pattern in my life, but in over half of my relationships, the woman has been coming off of a major long term breakup, and fled to me for security and comfort. This almost always ends in heart ache for me, as the female is blowing off steam, learning that it's ok to be loved again, while at the same time, I am developing feelings.
Anybody else have this problem/pattern? Any ideas on how to avoid it? The provider in me always wants to help...
Anybody else have this problem/pattern? Any ideas on how to avoid it? The provider in me always wants to help...