Motor Jax said:
on one point, he is emphasizing
the second point is, well you've made your point clear and seems you are set in your ways. but antogonizing others about their own personal choices is nothing to be noble about. it is a hinderance to understanding. this isn't the first time i have seen this (Theology).
you have passion, and passion is what protects the weak and makes for a debate for the greater good. but when wielded to your own agenda, seems selfish to say the least.
between the lines of your well-put together debates are signs of aggression.
Emotional Intelligence is much more important than IQ
I can't tell. Am I getting chewed out? :mrgreen: I was only kidding in that case. I think even SH realized that because he replied in kind.
As far as the rest, forgive me if I care too much what other people choose to believe, especially on issues from which I am far from detached. I try to provide warning when I may say something offensive, whether it be in the thread title, the OP, etc. You are welcome to provide examples where I have failed to do so and I will make amends. And yes, I will attack the choices the people make with all the strength in my body and mind, because those choices affect the lives of others, and I think it is important for them to understand that impact.
Now if you think "the greater good" is served by passion, then I have news for you, passion is simply a strong emotional attachment. It exists regardless of motive and a person cannot control or invoke it by will. It is always there, and at best, it can only be suppressed when it is not appropriate to show it.
Am I aggressive? I have no doubt that there are times I overstep the boundaries of civility when I have reached a point of distress and frustration, and I am often ruthlessly sarcastic and cynical in topics for which I have little sympathy. However, I don't necessarily think that is a bad thing. I care highly about maintaining harmony and protecting other's feelings, but I also care too much about my personal integrity to be anything but upfront and brutally honest about how I feel. Hence, why I try to warn others when I may say something that could be perceived as offensive.
Now if I do cross a line, and begin to personally attack someone else out of spite, then I understand if I am reprimanded or action is taken against me.