I don't believe in this. Maybe it's ADHD but I'm always the last one to fall asleep at a party with close friends and the first one to hit the hay at a party with a lot of people I don't know very well. So my energy input/output depends a lot more on how I feel about it than where I am.
Amen to this!
I loves you ......
I admit, we are. We also cause a lot of additional trouble/noise by clashing with each other (E-E).
A lady of interest, comes to mind (my mind, my interest), whom I am convinced is ENFP, High energy, serious, hypnotic, (it's impossible to ignore her:in a good, upbuilding way), and the kids she works with professionaly (she's a life skills teaching staff member), regard her with respect, and awe: "She's cool; Ya, she's cool" . What's more, she truly doe's help-these adolescents/teens.One can not calculate the worth of that. Of all the women I've been dealing with day in-day out during this past season,she's the only one who's presence, actually left me "feeling good", or better than before.I was discussing this with my best friend last night who noticed there's something there,between this teacher and me. Reading this thread on and off all this morning gave me the inspiration to see what it is:She's honest; sincere, in her motivations- authentic-like few, I have ever come across. I am also convinced, she has read me- even better, than I her, believing her social I.Q. to be amongst the highest around(that's why the kids are so in awe of the way she deals with them.) During this time, I 've dealt in close proximity with them day in day out, for 6 months, so I'm pretty sure of what I've observed. I think this extrovert(the teacher), is on the shy side for an extrovert. Also, I believe I've been in association with a second shy extrovert for 6 months. She recently identified herself as such. These truly are-two of the very nicest people I have ever met. What, am I trying to show? Generalities are like walking on thin ice.When I release some psych pressure by posting my "I hate extroverts", I'm aware of that...I just felt the urge to whine off-ab. some of the more irritating extroverts i've had to deal with and do it in a safe place (here)...I do not believe any one on this forum has or is allowed by me, to cause me irritation. I value this opportunity to express my true self with the knowledge I will most likely be understood, and possibly appreciated even......even....even....what..?...Well, maybe..(-=Nah, everybody loves introverts. (for basically the same reasons listed)
I admit, we are. We also cause a lot of additional trouble/noise by clashing with each other (E-E).
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Yes, you are actually very kind and very honest, thank you. Now if you imagine this little discomforting moment of E-ness, but that you do it most of the time. You kind of get used to it. You somehow learn to tolerate it. And only occasionally, rarely (but inevitably), your introverted side climbs up and catches you by the throat and says "I got you! You thought you can just do all that??". That's essentially what happens to most extroverts, even if it's not too publicly visible - extroverts are definitely worse than introverts at showing their introverted side (if that makes sense). It is shallow, because it is undeveloped, weak, unexplored. Even ENTJs, "the pillars of strength", believe it or not, occasionally, very rarely, break down and are so vulnerable and self-destructive, it can't be described.
-Damn right I'm not! I was beginning to worry about finding my own uniqueness, and that's exhausting.
- I can crack all 21 of my fingers. That counts for something, ay?
-Not true. I'm very pushy and walk twice as fast as anyone.
-That can be argued. Wanna play chess?
-Meh, I've heard differently.
-Fair enough.
Absolutely right. Parties are for losers.
Yep, correct
-Yep, qft.
-Damn right, and it says, "NO INTRUDERS ALLOWED"
-What?
