According to Socionics, this may be your perfect match, rather than ESTj.
Have any of you INFJs been in a relationship (any kind of relationship), with an ESTP? How do you feel about your relation to them?
I am extremely doubtful that an ESTP would be a good match for me. I'm not so sure one would be able to keep up with me mentally/emotionally. If I found one that could it would be incredible, but I am not getting my hopes up.
Is that why you joined this forum? Just curious.....
So, ENTroP, how do you feel about the ENTP/INFJ match up? Is this the ideal in your view?
My ideal match up would be an ISFp. I dated a girl who was ISFp, and if not for my parent's religious bigotry, and her inability to handle adversity, I think we would still be together and very happy.
I do like INFJ's alot though, and could see the relationship being fulfilling. I seem to get on well enough with INFJs I encounter, anyhow. But I'm going to have to stick with ISFp. It's the things you don't have, psychologically, that you should look for in your partner. An xNxx relationship may be fun for a while, but you need to get the perspective you can't give yourself sometimes.
Yes, they compliment each other nicely but N and S have such different views that the relationship might cause friction/conflict between the 2 individuals, I do believe it could work if they are both mature and have developed their functions but if they are not it will be very hard to function.
Fun.
I feel fun towards ESTPs.
I have a few male ESTP friends and they unlock my inner ravenous social butterfly monster. And then adventures are had. They are witty as all get out.
Yes I agree, someone who's completely our shadow is very hard to relate to, there most be some sort of connection which is why I think ENTP is a better match then ESTP because N's relate with N than S's but even so, preferences depend on the specific individual, personaly I'm attracted to INTP's
For me, ENTP's are far far worse, but that is because the Ne/Ti combo to me is like vitrol. Even though I have abysmal Se, I can actually deal with that function easier then Ne.
Yea... The Ne makes us unpredictable, and I think we derive a certain perverse pleasure from it...
I love the unpredictability of Ne, my dream love type is spontaneous.
I think so.You are INFP right?