Hating people

ahahahahhahaha OMG!!!!

the walking like an ape thing.. is funny .... how does he walk like an ape!?!?!? ahahah hihihi

okay.. so.. you know.. I HATE A LOT OF PEOPLE.. ahahahaha I DON'T LIKE THE IDEA OF ME HATING PEOPLE.. but i just can't stop myself.. it's like there are these people who are sooooooooooooo selfish... sooo self centered.. it's like everything's about them!!!! it's like their opinions, words, thoughts, feelings/emotions are the only thing that matters!!!!

it annoys me the most when i'm around these kinds of people..and there are of course.. plenty of them at school.. at first.. I didn't know how to deal with these people...It makes me negative at school.. like i'm always angry or something,

but my other friends just tell me not to mind them.. well as long as they don't mind my business.. i won't mind theirs.. but you know.. like you..

it still irritates me a lot ahahahhaha

it doesn't make me negative forever there are a lot of people in this world.. not just that ape walking man

and ... you know.. that man isn't worth your wrinkles... SO SMILE WHEN YOU SEE HIM

 

O my gosh i totally feel you here.

Yes those type of people You mention Krumplenump are so damn annoying.

Although i think they only talk about them 24/7 because they want to be talked about 24/7.

Basically i think people like that feel very alone so they try to surround themselves by saying LOOK AT ME!

but yes...oo gosh i know so many people like that..
I just quite frankly dont like being around them. and if i am for too long...

(sigh) its only for so long..i either laugh?...or simply have an outburst and say

SHUT UP ALREADY GOSH! NO ONE CARES ABOUT WHAT YOU DOOO!!!

 

I can't stand it when people like that get under my skin. That's probably the goal for a lot of them anyhow, just to get under peoples skin and observe reactions. People like that see the rest of us like puppets to be tested and toyed with. When I realise someone is this type I just act very bland around them and don't give anything away.

 

It sounds like you and a lot of people are the ones being selfish in wanting other people to be exactly how you want them to be.

 

I don't think i'm that selfish to not let other people be themselves

but if a person doesn't even care about other people and only cares about himself.. then that person has an issue.. because nobody can live alone.. whether he likes it or not.. he has to deal with other people too and not other people deal with him all his life... then he might as well die

 

hahahaha this is funny.. it's like one of those lines in spy movies

does he feel that you are irritated by him?

 

I felt like I could have written the OP. Yes, I get that way too - once someone is under my skin, it's hard to see them clearly. I try to remain unjudgmental and uncritical, to a point.... There's always a point where I can't do it anymore. Good post!

 

I have hated. I could won a gold medal in hate. I have found that hating someone is letting them to continue to win over me.

My Aunt who is a Christian nun told this to me. She was relating to me through my Buddhist practice.

She told me of an old story.

There were 2 monks that were traveling
They come across a beggar woman.

One of the monks offered to put her on his back to cross the river.

They did this. The monk picked up the woman and carried her on his back through the river.

The other monk was mad at this. He was boiling over. The woman left and for 2 miles the other monk stewed on this.

After 2 miles had passed the monk could not take it any longer. He said to the first monk.

"I cant believe that you carried that woman on your back to cross the river!"

The first monk said "I only carried her to cross the river. You have been carrying this woman on your back for 2 miles."

I have crippled my life with my hatred of people who were cruel to me.

Now I realize that through my Buddhist practice. That when people act in this way they are really creating negative causes for their life.

When people act in this way that are miserable and unhappy. They will continue to create misfortune and bad karma.

There are two things that my friends in faith have pointed out to me. First, it is through this person that I recommit myself to my practice to shine my life and be happy.

Second, I should have compassion for them . I have my practice to help guide myself through my difficulties and overcome the obstacles that in reality end up strengthening my life.

Now I chant and have had such fortune this year. I know that my life will manifest happiness. Indestructable happiness that when I encounter people I will have solid roots of faith planted so that I will be able to overcome their unhappy actions.

 

Exactly.

N/S-dominant functions are peaceful and perceptive folks. So perceptive that we can perceive the misanthropy of others, which can anger us, unnaturally. It is the worst feeling in the world, to be forced to become angry. Oh, how I wish to never have to be angry again about angry people who would make me. That's why I think there's a propensity within our types to seek solitary living, because the world is too poisoned with hatred, and we are too perceptive of it, to be able to take it. It's a shame, because we could otherwise be really like a big happy family, we are very good at doing that. Whatever happens, it seems i'm always gonna love infjs. *blush* by the way this forum has the best smilies, these monkeys, they are real, full of life and sincere passion, not like the other ones

 

I am glad you liked it. I cant take credit for it. It is one of those word of mouth stories that get passed along. The author is unknown.

 

This describes me exactly.

 

BUWAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAAAAA!

 

I am a brand new user to this site I just wanted to say first off that I'm really grateful to have come across it.

I can relate / agree to Sookie's reply to this post. For some reason I've very recently uh.. 'opened my eyes' so to speak, to the damage I've caused myself over teh past decade with negative feelings. They tended to grow stronger overtime and manifest into something much more to the point it was far outweighing my positive feelings and outlook. Everything pissed me off. I feel like I sabotaged myself over the years and now that I'm changing my train of thought and trying to see others in a different light, I feel much better (although I still have a long way to go Ill admit). Trust me I was at the point where saying 'I Hate People' was one of my most often spoken words when anything* would piss me off. Now.. I smile. And I breathe. Something so simple helps so much when you feel those negative emotions creeping up. It may sound silly but I give credit to my new found train of thought to reading about the laws of attraction. I believe it to be some pretty powerful stuff and I thank my mother for bringing it to my attention. It has really helped me.

This may not sound like it has much to do with the original posters comments but really.. in the big picture its about letting crap in life get the best of you. Wether it be people or situations. Once you learn how to literally control those emotions and 'let them go', it makes the crap alot easier to take.

 

Fortunately, my hate list is very short.
But they are mostly people that for some reason I hated from the moment I met them, and when I see them my heart rate goes up.
It's almost as if it is a pheromonal reaction.

There is a lot of truth in what you said.

One of the best lessons my late Father taught me growing up was that if someone is picking on you, don't give them the reaction they expect.
If you don't react, they will get bored and move on.

I recall in school 10th grade or thereabouts, there was a bully who for some unknown reason wanted to kick my ass while we were in gym class.

I laughed at him to his face. Repeated threats only resulted in more laughs.
He was clueless as to how to react to this. "He's not afraid of me?"
Which turned into an awkward, embarrassing moment for him since he was calling me out in front of everybody.
He never did pay any attention to me again.

I was willing to risk getting into a fight had it not worked, but I just found him so damn funny!