I have occasions where I'm very fond of humanity and humans, and I want to be around them, but once I've established that I do not like a particular person I seem to adopt a seething underlying hatred of them. I say this because I have recently come to the conclusion that a certain colleague at work is a total wanker. He loves himself beyond measure and has a crude confidence that is just totally out of place. He always jabbers on about what he's done here what he did there, how much money he made doing this and that and is generally a self-obsessed utter bore with horrid habits like snorting and spitting outside, walking like an ape and SHOUTING on the phone, never talking. When he does talk to various people about things like politics or the 'state of current affairs' he does so in such a self-important manner and relates scenarios to everyone as though his word is gospel. Honestly, I have adopted a hatred for this man. I wondered if anyone else gets this hatred of certain people and if it makes them generally more negative in the rest of their life? Or can you just shrug off irritating people..?