Not Afraid to Use His Beard
- Sep 11, 2009
Over the last year and a half I've come back into contact with my first love Mari. We interact on FB and do couples things with our spouses on occasion now. It's crossed my mind many times since then how alike she and my wife Michelle are. They both tested as ISFJ's (though I really can't see Mari as an "I"), and have some similar issues with bi-polar too. The other thing that really stuck me is how much I think they look alike, though Mari's looks have now changed due to her illness. Both are pale-skinned, blues eyes, high cheekbones, blonde hair. My question for debate here is, do we consciously or sub-consciously look for lovers or mates that remind us of our first loves? I know everyone I have dated in the interim did not fit this profile. But these are the only two women I ever really loved. I think the replies here will be most interesting. Below is a photo of each. The ages are about 10 years apart, but they show the similarities I think.