Can someone be too earnest or sincere?
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I know some chauvinists that are pretty blunt, pretty confident, and pretty damn thruthful.
It doesn't mean I have to agree or enjoy their company. Some like the fact that they will always get an honest answer. I personally don't enjoy many of their opinions or company.
It doesn't mean I have to agree or enjoy their company. Some like the fact that they will always get an honest answer. I personally don't enjoy many of their opinions or company.
No, i think the question was misunderstood. I'm not talking about honesty with others, as in being tactful when telling someone what you think about them or anything like that. I'm talking about sincerity or a sense of earnest, niceness, in personality. When someone is, as they say, just honest to goodness sincere or what they call overly sincere in their attitude or response to everything. In other words, the quality is associated with being too naive.
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Agree with you. Excess of anything kills its power and charm.
I think, people can become too much honest person, when they want to prove themselves best.
What about self-righteousness?
You can never have too much of that.
Especially if you make it sincere.
Presidents and prime-ministers know all about that.
You know: those paragons of virtue we all look up to...
I feel as though honesty will always serve a person well unless they are not being honest with themselves.
I realize that earnest and honest are not synonyms, but they are closely related enough so that general principles of honestly can apply.
I realize that earnest and honest are not synonyms, but they are closely related enough so that general principles of honestly can apply.
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Thank you crow.
Yes, I think that can. Understanding how conditionally can be understood intentions of human for other human, makes me think that such a concept really can exist in some people understanding. But, if sincerity that someone uses, is constructive, I mean is oriented to himself and to other person and to constructive relations and new understandings taking to himself and possibility to show that to other person, I think that kind of personality feature can not be too much.
Hmmm.. too dorky sincerity... if sincerity is used gradually till two sincerities creates naturally sincerity, then it doesn't looks too dorky. But again, people are condionally creatures.
Yes, too much sincerity can be a vulnerability for people taking advantage of you. I keep mine locked up to keep from being trampled on.
well it's going to depend on whose company you're in. among some people, sincerity and blunt honesty would be respected and admired; among others, it would be crass. depends entirely on the social context.
The STBX is wonderful at this type of talk. It makes me want to throw things. Lol
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Oh, yea, I have that, it was a lot worse when I was younger, I trusted everyone. I was always shocked when it turned out someone had bad intentions for me.
LOL
Am I finally understanding???
So there's probably nothing wrong with dorky then. 
There are people who call their deliberate and continuous arrogance "honesty", there are also tactless people who don't do it deliberately. I'm fine with the latter, but when I sense the former situation, that offends me. It's not what people say or do that offends me, it's their desire to offend that I find offensive. Here being offended is a systematic rational reaction, because it goes against rationality when someone is irrationally negative to people, instead of truly analysing them. With time, I'm more convinced that misanthropy can only be caused by a form of ignorance.
There are people who call their deliberate and continuous arrogance "honesty", there are also tactless people who don't do it deliberately. I'm fine with the latter, but when I sense the former situation, that offends me. It's not what people say or do that offends me, it's their desire to offend that I find offensive. Here being offended is a systematic rational reaction, because it goes against rationality when someone is irrationally negative to people, instead of truly analysing them. With time, I'm more convinced that misanthropy can only be caused by a form of ignorance.
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Honesty when required is a boon but permanent honesty? No duplicity?
That's just boring!!
Without duplicity most subtlety is lost, sarcasm fails and most jokes are dead in the water.
Honestly, dishonesty is an important trait but like all traits it has it's applications. Stray away from those applications and it's less... applicable...
(Yeah my inner dictionary isn't failing today... honest!!)
That's just boring!!
Without duplicity most subtlety is lost, sarcasm fails and most jokes are dead in the water.
Honestly, dishonesty is an important trait but like all traits it has it's applications. Stray away from those applications and it's less... applicable...
(Yeah my inner dictionary isn't failing today... honest!!)
I have noticed how much of external interaction is about building an image. That is a major deterant for me to be able to interact well in the world especially in professional situations. I have one personae I use for teaching and performing, but even that one is a little dorky.
This is one of my favorite sentences ever.
