Bubbliness

I am not bubbly at all. I am usually pretty emotionally flat. However. I can act very silly in the right situations. Most people will just call me quirky.

Here is an example of me being silly, enjoy it because this only happens once or twice a year (2.5 years ago): http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZGJZfT-gJjg

 

Are you bubbly? No

Do your friends describe you as bubbly? I'm real gregarious when I'm drunk, otherwise no.

Is it something conscious or something you can't really control? I'm full of spite.

The most bubbly of the bubbly types are of course ESFPs and my ex was also bubbly, she was an ENFP. INFPs can be cute and bubbly when they're not pouting.

 

Are you bubbly?

I can if I wanted to, the rare times when I go in E mood I find myself in a state of extreme euphoria trying to explain every single theory I have or trying to force myself to help everyone lol

Do your friends describe you as bubbly?

Not really any friends irl, Im not sure about you guys in the forum ..though I can appears detached in some way...I always try to help people and teachers in my class..I get excited when I do this as I love helping..I propose to teach something to someone I become over excited and I start getting energy out of nowhere..

Is it something conscious or something you can't really control?

I believe I can control it, I decide when to act in such a way most of the time, though Im starting to second guess myself because even though I am able to control when Im energetic or not, I don't know if I am aware of what Im doing in extreme ''happy'' situtations.

 

I think INFJs can be bubbly. They certainly have bubbly periods. I can point out to 2 very solidly tested INFJs, close friends of mine, who are bubbly most of the time. They are... way too dedicated and inspired with their work, and so everything around them gets affected by this burning motivation. I want to compare with the Lion King character Rafiki:
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INTP

 

HAHAHA! That was hilarious.

 

Ah, yes, that's another thing to note too! ENFJs are not always bubbly! Nope, they can be depressed too, then they become cynical and withdrawn (turn to excessive Ti). Thus describing the line between ENFJ and INFJ with bubbliness doesn't seem precise enough.

I'll even go so far to claim that INFJs are more bubbly than ENFJs on average, because ENFJs are more stable, more calm; their primary function is a judging function. INFJ's primary function is a perceiving function which makes them a ball of passion.

 

Bubbliness is overrated anyhow, it's indicative of a depraved culture. Let's all just gaze cynically at the bottom of an empty beerstein.

 

Though I am rather calm and quiet around new people, my friends and loved ones know that I can be quite bubbly when I'm in a good mood! I get easily excited, so that's probably why.

 

I just hope they don't make a law of it, because ENFJs really like laws. (many of them even become lawyers, lol)

 

Do ENFJs even get shitfaced? I suppose they could, nothing would prevent them from doing so. But I can't see them lamenting the end of a glass of beer. They're moderate careful folk, like squirrels packing away nuts for the winter.

 

Hey, ENFJs are awesome.

 

Yes they are, they perpetuate the world's affairs and keep human rights intact so slackers like me can get stoned and watch cartoons...God bless them.

 

I'm also pretty emotionally flat.
I am monotone, usually.
I react and speak slowly in conversation and avoid introducing myself to people.
Not bubbly at all. Unless I've been drinking. Then all of the above mentioned is opposite times about 200%