1. V

    [INFJ] INFJ Co-worker Crush

    Hello everyone. It is my first time and post here, so thank you for bearing with me. Brace yourselves, because this will be too long of a story. I really wish however to see other peoples opinions about it, without judging me (and my poor writing). Since September, I (INFJ female, as much as I...
  2. J

    Confused over a straight INFJ

    hi. I need someone to help me with this, I am slowly driving myself insane over what is probably nothing, but I need someone to explain this INFJ behaviour to me. I work at a coffee shop. In March a woman I had never seen before came in. I served her, it was a very brief interaction but I...
  3. C

    [ENFP] I have feelings for my unavailable new INFJ friend, help me

    ENFP here. I met an INFJ 2 months ago (we work together). We got on like a house on fire from the second we met, we talk about everything - philosophy, psychology, history, music, travel, MBTI lol... We share the same crazy opinions and theories about the world and other people. Things that...
  4. Madgirl143


    Hello there, I just need some advice about initiating and making the first move. There's this guy at this cinema I always go to, not often but enough to gain a crush on one of the staff. He's cute but he's Asian. I don't know if he's religious or whether he's a bit open-minded about dating...
  5. neow

    [ISFJ] Confused by INFJ's mixed? signals

    Hi! I've been lurking on this forum a few times but I decided to join ^_^ I'm a female ISFJ and I have known this INFJ for 2 years now. We both study the same thing but he's 2.5 years younger than me if that's relevant :p We've also both never actually been in a relationship. I'm usually more...
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    [INFJ] Mixed Signals from Male INFJ

    Hello everyone! I am a shy female INFJ. I have this friend who is an INFJ and I've known him for about 4 years now. We have always hung out casually as we are part of the same friend group. Even if this might seem a bit ridiculous, I have had a crush on him 3 times. He is quite a reserved INFJ...
  7. Scientia

    Long-term Crushes

    Have you had a crush or has someone had a crush on you for an extended period of time? How long is too long to hold onto a crush? If a crush goes on for years, is it still a crush or is it something else?
  8. Scientia

    Turnoffs: Things that turn you off in another